Cuteness Aggression, Fat Phobia, Introversion, and Daddy Issues
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 18 August 2023
⏱️ 120 minutes
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00:00 Managing genuine apologies
11:26 Internalized relationships
27:02 PIS announcements & OPP
35:04 Cuteness aggression
55:29 OPP 2
57:41 Differentiation fatigue
1:06:28 Fat phobia
1:15:36 Dependent Personality Disorder
1:24:20 An email from Ed
1:32:58 Preoccupied attachments & safe friendships
1:39:0 The Dodo bird verdict
1:48:27 Introversion & people-pleasing tendencies
1:54:24 Daddy issues
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August 18, 2023
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserving listeners. |
| 0:01.0 | I thought I would read some patron emails. |
| 0:03.9 | This first email is from anonymous middle tier patron. |
| 0:07.8 | They say, hi, Dr. Kirk, I've heard you say many times |
| 0:12.2 | that one of the most important parts of an effective apology |
| 0:16.4 | is setting out a path forward, saying what you're going to do |
| 0:21.3 | in order to change a harmful or hurtful behavior. |
| 0:24.4 | At the same time, for those of us that have these behavior |
| 0:28.0 | patterns ingrained deeply enough, like lying reflexively |
| 0:31.9 | under stress, I feel like it takes time |
| 0:34.5 | to change those patterns. |
| 0:36.4 | What are some good ways to convey that you're serious |
| 0:39.4 | about making changes without making promises |
| 0:42.0 | you might not yet be able to keep end of email? |
| 0:45.2 | Yeah, that's a really good question. |
| 0:46.9 | So what I'll say is that it depends. |
| 0:50.3 | But if I am understanding what you're getting at with my wife, |
| 0:54.7 | for example, when I apologize to her about something |
| 0:59.3 | that I did during conflict, I will often, |
| 1:03.3 | if I think it's necessary, I'll say, and it often is, |
| 1:06.4 | I'll say something like, so I feel bad about what I did. |
| 1:10.3 | I'm sorry, here's why I did it. |
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