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Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais

Cultivating Healthy Relationships | Psychologist, Dr. Melanie Joy

Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais

Dr. Michael Gervais

Sport Psychology, Finding Mastery, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Business, Self Help, Michael Gervais, Health & Fitness, Mindset, Psychology, Self-improvement, Education

4.7 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2020

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

This week’s conversation is with Dr. Melanie Joy, a Harvard-educated psychologist specializing in relationships, communication, and social change.

Melanie is best known for her groundbreaking theories on the psychology of violence, nonviolence, and building healthy relationships.

Her analyses have helped explain why people engage in “nonrelational” behaviors—behaviors that harm other people, animals, the planet, and themselves—as well as how to change this pattern

She is the eighth recipient of the Ahimsa Award—previously given to the Dalai Lama and Nelson Mandela—for her work on global nonviolence; and she also received both the Peter Singer Prize and the Empty Cages Prize for her work developing strategies to reduce the suffering of animals. 

Melanie’s mission is to raise awareness of the obstacles preventing people from interacting in ways that create a sense of mutual connection.

These obstacles are both internal (psychological) and external (social), and they are a key reason why we act against our own interests and the interests of others—often without realizing that we’re doing so.

With awareness, we are better able to think freely and act compassionately, to create healthier and more fulfilling relationships and a more equitable and sustainable world.

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0:00.0

The formula for a healthy relationship can be boiled down to a relationship in which you practice

0:07.3

integrity, that means you practice the core moral values of compassion, sometimes called caring and justice or fairness, you practice integrity and you honor dignity in that process. Like it's really that that's what it would boil down to and this leads'm a sport and performance psychology. My name is Michael Jervais by Trade and Training.

0:43.4

I'm a Sport and Performance Psychologist,

0:45.8

as well as the co-founder of Compete to Create.

0:48.2

And the whole idea behind these conversations

0:50.9

is to learn. But not just learn in a passive way, to learn in a way to understand

0:58.8

how people that are pursuing mastery in their life.

1:02.0

How do they organize their inner life?

1:04.1

What are they searching for?

1:05.6

What are the mental skills that they use?

1:08.0

And then so that we can apply those same insights

1:10.4

and practices in our own lives in our unique way.

1:13.6

And so there is a nice blend between the science

1:17.1

that we're gonna stand on of psychology,

1:19.0

as well as the art of practice.

1:26.0

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