Welcome back to We Can Do Hard Things. We are very excited today because we have the

specialist guest ever, Craig Melton. You know him, you love him. He's a damn national

treasure and he is here with Logan Yurrie, who is a behavioral scientist, turned dating

coach and the author of the bestselling dating book, How to Not Die Alone, the surprising

science that will help you find love. Our last episode, if you have not listened, you

have to go back. Abby Glennon, Logan and I had a fascinating conversation about really

what's under dating, how the hell you date as a grown-up, how you can be true to yourself

to find who you want to attract into your life, significant others, including a partner,

or also just delightful folks you want to fill your life up with an expanded life. And

today we are taking that wisdom and making it practical and concrete with our very own

Craig Melton. Craig is not only my beloved brother-in-law, he is Chase, Tish and Amma's

father and co-parent of them with Glennon and Abby. And he is also a man on the scene

as it were. For about seven years you've been dating Craig, is that right? That's about

right. Yeah, wow. Thank you for being here. And as you will note, Glennon and Abby are

not. So speak freely because we are actually looking contrary to what she indicated on

the last podcast. We are looking for you to find your person, not necessarily a sister

wife. Well, thank you for having me. Logan is here to talk to us about you and what

you're looking for and patterns and how to find what you're looking for. So get us up

to speed on where you are Craig in your current situation. So I've been dating for somebody

for three months. And I guess my dating, ever since seven years ago, the whole process

is kind of evolved a bit. It was married 14 years and back in the day before there were

apps you met people just out and about. And so coming onto the scene, learning the apps,

...