219. How to Make a Friend & Find a Date with Logan Ury

We Can Do Hard Things

Glennon Doyle & Audacy

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 15 June 2023

⏱️ 58 minutes

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How the hell do grown ups date and make friends? Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury is here to help us make dating and meeting new friends easier: how to identify what you really want; why we should stop searching for “the spark”; why we keep going after the same people that are wrong for us; how to talk to our kids about their first love experiences; why we need to have “other significant others”; and the eight questions you should ask yourself after meeting anyone new. About Logan: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google’s behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. TW: @loganury IG: @loganury To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome to We Can Do Hard Things. Today is going to be super exciting because we are talking
0:16.7	about dating. I know. I know. The whole world of dating there are so many pods, quite
0:23.1	or so, who are in the dating world and have felt a little left out from all of our domestic
0:29.4	lesbian conversations. So we are going to wrap them all in today. And thank God we have
0:35.0	somebody who knows something about dating because none of us do. But also I feel like it's
0:39.9	important to say that this, all of the expertise and research and stories we're going to talk
0:47.5	about today aren't just only about dating. It's about how you can bring into your life significant
0:55.6	others, whether those people are romantic partners or friends. It's about getting yourself out
1:02.3	there to find the people that will bring good things to your life. That's why I loved this
1:08.3	particular person because I feel like all of her work, it was helpful for me in terms of dating
1:14.7	friends, finding new people and bringing them into our lives, getting to know anybody better.
1:20.0	Her name is Logan Yuri and she is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of
1:27.2	the best-selling dating book How to Not Die Alone, the surprising science that will help you find love.
1:33.4	She works as Hinge's director of relationship science. Okay, so Hinge is one of these new fancy dating
1:40.7	apps. We called them bars in my day. Conducting research on modern dating, she runs an online
1:50.8	community through her weekly newsletter Logan's love letter. She studied psychology at Harvard
1:56.1	and ran Google's behavioral science team, the irrational lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her
2:02.2	husband, Scott. Welcome Logan. Yay, thanks for having me here. It's surreal to hear your voices
2:09.6	directed at me. Usually it's just like me and my car or me doing the dishes. So this is such a great
2:15.2	experience. Thanks for listening. I didn't know that you were a regular listener of the pod. That's
2:19.8	awesome. Absolutely, pod squad. I love it. And a really fun thing that we're going to do because
2:26.5	some people listening might be saying, what the hell do you people know about dating and those
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