Welcome to the Girl on Top ShalinXO podcast.

I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel,

where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the

past week. Gotta love quandary? Head to my website, Shaolinlesser.com to get connected, and also shop my

merch and take some fun quizzes. Be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it, and follow me on

Instagram at ShaolinXO and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week.

Welcome back to the podcast, Shalaners.

Let's do our breathing meditation and get in the right headspace.

So we're going to get comfy.

We're going to take that bra off.

I've worn a bra in weeks and quite frankly I never intend to again.

And just roll our shoulders back, drop them down,

take our tongue off the roof of our mouth and breathe in through our nose. And exhale. We're going to do that again, in through the nose. Hold for a few beats. exhale and remember our mantra during quarantine thank you for my healing

thank you for my protection say it to yourself thank you for my healing thank you for my protection

you got to claim the blessings before they even get here in order to really maximize

the chance for them to arrive. So we're going to talk first about a situation we don't often get to

talk about gay dating. All right. So we have a question from James. And he said, I've been

hooking up with this guy for three years until December when

things started to change. We spent a night together and ever since, a few weekends getting to

know each other. I'm 21 from an upper middle class Jewish family from Long Island, and he and his

family are Muslim immigrants from Yemen living in Brooklyn. When I asked if he, I'm sorry, when I asked

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