Welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio and the opposite of last week when we came from the Texas deep freeze.

Now it's short sleeves.

Yeah, yeah.

The way the way it goes.

Texas, if you don't like the weather, just wait 36 hours.

That seems to be the way it goes.

This is sexy marriage radio where we're trying to have straightforward honest conversations

where everything is out in the open that we'll talk about,

which is the reason I'm phrasing it this way is because today's episode is all about the world of

covert contracts, which, you know, none of us have ever done in life.

Insert sarcasm here.

Total sarcasm, because this is a common aspect of what happens in married life, where if I do

X, then I'll get Y. It's that exchange-based kind of mentality, but's not spoken it's just done and so to set the

stage we'll talk about it from an email and let's just jump right in the email came to feedback

at sexy marriage radio.com by the way if you want to ask a question for your situation or let us know

how this goes and we'll continue the dialogue that way.

But this says, hey, Corey and Pam, long time listener and I could use your help.

I'm the guy who does the cooking, cleaning, and all the partnership stuff.

And honestly, I thought I was doing marriage right.

But our sex life is basically non-existent and I'm starting to realize I've been playing a game

I didn't even know I was playing. So here's the deal. Somewhere along the way, I started keeping score,

which no one, I mean, guilty. I've done that as well. Yeah, yeah, it's pretty common. Like if I do

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