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Sarah, can make free.

Uh-huh.

Robin, I'm curious. Natasha and I've talked about, I don't know if it's a regret, but wondering

if, like, one of the things I do think about is I never really laid out for Hot 99, for

management or, like, Kane, like, all of his behavior, like, really laid it out. I kind of was, like,

I was working on myself. I was getting to the bottom of my mindful eating and I came to the conclusion like I needed to leave, right? And I've always wanted to be a talk show host on my own and do these other things. So it was like, okay, I'm going to leave, right? But Natasha and I've talked about this. Like should you ever confront? I don't know if confronts the right word,

but we, I think we've both had regrets, like, maybe we should have tried to help Kane.

But is that, again, going back to that, like, oh, if I just could be better to him? Is that, like,

still, like, kind of a caretakers mentality? I don't know. Yeah, I mean, I think you did probably both try in the way

that you were saying, this isn't working. Look what you're doing. I'm going to have to leave now

because your way you're acting. There's not a lot of self-reflection and accepting blame or feeling or growth.

You know, the other thing that happens is that narcissists often, they need to be special

and they need the people around them to be special.

So they love bomb you in the beginning.

You're so great. You're amazing. you know, you're exceptional and unbelievable.

And so you feel really good in the beginning.

Like it feels like, and they're usually very charming and charismatic.

And then when you're not perfect, or you challenge them in some way, you go from here to

in the dirt, right?

There's no middle ground, right?

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