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Could Dating an AI Be Better Than Dating a Human?

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4.6 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 February 2026

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Love in the time of AI? Some people seeking romance or friendship are turning to AI chatbots to fulfill those desires, but could they surpass traditional human relationships? Those who say they can argue that AI can offer empathy and safety, and it’s a solution for those left out of traditional dating. Those saying they can’t argue that intimacy is complicated and cannot be replicated in code. Now we debate: Could Dating an AI Be Better Than Dating a Human?  Arguing Yes: Thao Ha, Associate Professor of Psychology and Director of the @HEART Lab at Arizona State University    Arguing No: Justin Garcia, Executive Director & Senior Scientist at the Kinsey Institute; Chief Scientific Advisor to Match.com; Author of "The Intimate Animal"  Nayeema Raza, Journalist and Host of "Smart Girl Dumb Questions", is the guest moderator.  Join the conversation on Substack—share your perspective on this episode and subscribe to our weekly newsletter for curated insights from our debaters, moderators, and staff.  Follow us on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, X, Facebook, and TikTok to stay connected with our mission and ongoing debates.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hi everybody. Welcome to Open to Debate. I'm John Donvan. In November of last year, the state of

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New York passed a law that requires chatbots to remind users every three hours that they are not human.

0:42.9

California signed a law with a similar rule back in October.

0:45.9

As the emotional relationship between AIs and humans continues to evolve, we're revisiting a point in question about romance in our digital age, and we're doing it just in time for Valentine's Day. My friend and colleague Naima Raza moderates this one, so Naima, it's all yours. Welcome to Open to Debate at the Comedy Cellar, where tonight we're debating this question. Can dating an AI be better than dating a human? This is not a joke and it's not an episode of

1:11.6

Black Mirror. I'm Naima Razai, host a show called Smart Girl Dumb Questions. And I think years ago,

1:16.4

this question of AI versus human romance would have been seen as a really dumb question.

1:21.6

And for many people out there, it might still seem like a dumb question, especially if you're

1:25.0

older, especially if you're happily married with beautiful babies and a great sex life. We hate your Instagram feed. We see you. But it is the

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question of our time. And we're in a moment where we're lonelier than ever. Over 50% of American

1:37.3

women between the ages of 18 to 40 are single right now. That's the highest it's ever been.

1:42.9

50% of Gen Z teens report that they have

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been in some kind of dating relationship in their teenage years. Now, that compares to almost

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80% of Gen Xers or boomers at that time. And it intersects with this massive technological

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shift we've seen over the last couple of years and the improvement of large language models. Over

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20% of daters are already using AI in their dating life.

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Like you're using it to ask what you should say to the guy you met last night, et cetera.

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You might be using it to craft your dating profile online.

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