So you're a sexologist. Let us know what that is.

Our sexuality is the most vulnerable part of us.

We say sexologist and people just assume I'm like giving you BJ tips.

You know, can I? Yes.

It's the deepest intimate part of ourselves.

Totally.

I was a sex worker.

Got into that when I was trying to keep my startup afloat.

And I'd always been compelled to sex work. I found it fascinating because it was not at all what I thought it would be. Why is no one talking about this? And then I discovered sexology and I was like, I'm going back to school, I'm making it my life's work. That is like the most erotic thing that you can possibly do. I wanna do this with you. If you're afraid to ask for what you want in the bedroom, you're afraid to ask for a raise. It's just it literally mirrors how we do life. Women want to be objectified and loved. Sometimes you want to be made love to. Other times you want to like two minute quickie in the bathroom. We can't just eradicate porn.

It's not, you know, just like sex work.

It's the oldest profession.

What have you found are the differences between men and women when it comes to their desires?

I'm so glad to be doing this.

Sex and the porn industry and so much around it. It's so charged and it's and there's so much of it now.

And I think that there's many ways that it's negatively affecting people. But I'm also curious, what are the opportunities for a positive experience or learning? So so you're a sexologist, right?

That's one of the things.

So can you tell it?

Let us know what that is.

So I didn't have a clue what a sexologist was or that it even existed up until about four years ago.

But a sexologist studies the intersection of sexuality as it interacts with psychology,

sociology, and philosophy. So taking an all-encompassing multidisciplinary approach to

how we interact with sexuality, basically, because it's, you know, it's cultural, it's biological,

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