Hey welcome back to the personality hacker podcast my name is Joe Mark Witt and I'm

Antonia Dodge just recently there was a Facebook private message conversation

that happened on the personality hacker, you know,

page, Facebook page, that massively triggered me in a rather embarrassing way.

So a woman wrote in to Personality Hacker on the Facebook private message

and made a truncated comments that wasn't, I mean it wasn't a question, it wasn't really guided, it was just, you know, it was just a comment.

And Charis, our assistant, wrote back this like super long thoughtful response and at the end

of the I mean we're talking like four paragraphs worth of response to this

woman and at the end of it's the woman's response to Cheris

this woman and at the end of it the woman's response back to Cheris was totally disagree and that's it that's all she said and I'm a person who doesn't get triggered often, but for some

reason I instantly got like irate at this woman and I wrote back in the message and it's embarrassing

how rude I was but I wrote back in this private message like Charis don't even like

spend any more time talking to this woman. Obviously she doesn't appreciate

thoughtfulness and she doesn't have any thoughtfulness in her comments so just

basically I was dismissive of her in the same way that I thought she was dismissive of

Cheris and the woman wrote back a paragraph.

And she called me rude, which she was accurate. I was rude.

And she was able to defend herself, right?

She was able to be articulate then, and I commented on that. I was like,

oh, well now that your ego is all triggered, now you're able to like write more than two words, but, and it was just, it was so

stupid. It was so stupid. And then afterwards I thought, holy

crap, why did I get so triggered? What was going on there? So the top layer of

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