Conversations, Baby Teeth, Tasmanian Tiger. March 5, 2021, Part 2
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🗓️ 5 March 2021
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| 0:00.0 | This is Science Friday. I am Ira Flato. A little bit later in the hour, everything you wanted to know about |
| 0:05.9 | baby teeth and an update on the hunt for the Tasmanian tiger. But first, a conversation about |
| 0:12.7 | conversations. Here's Sifrise Charles Berkwist. Hi, Charles. Hey, Ira. All right, so fill us in on this. |
| 0:19.2 | What's this all about? Well, you talk to a lot of people on this show. So I'm going to regard you as the in-house conversational expert. Oh, really? Okay. Go for it. How do you know when a conversation is over, when you're done talking to somebody? Well, I think that when I've asked all the questions and heard all the answers, usually my conversation |
| 0:37.9 | is over. |
| 0:38.9 | Okay, that's fair. |
| 0:39.8 | But imagine that it's not an interview. |
| 0:41.8 | You're not going for some specific piece of information here. |
| 0:44.6 | This is just a random social situation, like you're chatting with someone at a picnic or a party, |
| 0:50.0 | if you remember what those are like. |
| 0:51.8 | Oh, yeah. |
| 0:52.4 | Well, back when we were doing that, if I recall you would |
| 0:55.7 | chat until there's sort of an awkward pause and people are looking at each other, what do I do now? |
| 1:01.8 | And then somebody will say, excuse me, I need to refill my drink and then you're out. |
| 1:06.9 | Right. Or take an important phone call, something like that. But have you ever been in the nightmare scenario where you drop that escape line and the other person just doesn't pick up on it? They follow you into the kitchen or whatever and they're still talking. Oh yeah, I hate when that happens. So it turns out people are universally bad at judging when to end a conversation. Their ideas and |
| 1:30.5 | the ideas of their conversational partner just aren't in sync. Adam Astriani is a doctoral candidate |
| 1:37.2 | in psychology at Harvard University. He wrote about this conundrum this week in the journal |
| 1:42.3 | Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. |
| 1:45.1 | I asked him just how bad we were at this and whether or not it was possible to pin a number on it. |
| 1:51.7 | The number would be 50%. So the difference between what people want and what they get is about 50% of the length of their conversation. |
| 1:57.4 | Now, that doesn't mean that all conversations that people would prefer that |
| 2:01.0 | they were half as long as they were. It means that what people want and what they get differs |
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