So I had had a rule.

She wasn't allowed to sleep in his bedroom at all.

Like no sleepovers no nothing for a very long time, for years.

Since we're pausing, what brought that on?

Was that like a request of his? Like, can we sleep in the same bed, request of hers, or you just saying?

Me being super paranoid not to trust anyone for the long time.

Even though he treated her well, I still looked at him, like, side-eye, like, like making sure, like, is that normal? Is this? Okay, that thought it was normal. Okay. I wanted to make sure that nothing was happening and that I was missing something, but...

But, um...

He never requested... I'm sorry, repeat the question then.

So I guess what you said, like you had a rule.

Like obviously we know now they've, you know,

slept in the same bedroom together and everything else.

I'm sure you're questioning a lot of things that, like, you haven't been told or that are going on.

The thought process of them sleeping in the same bedroom caused you to say that you had a rule for the longest time where they couldn't.

Yeah.

I have a son. He's a lot younger than her. He's four. But I guess if I was dating somebody or had somebody over, I would never establish, and this is

just me, a rule, he can't sleep in the bed with her or she's not going to be, it wouldn't

even be a thought process for me, so that's why I asked, because I wouldn't think of it even

as an option.

Yeah.

So when you say you had a rule, I guess I'm asking what prompted the rule?

Sleepovers before.

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