Confronting the Fear of Intimacy: Understanding the Link to Feeling Unwanted
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 805 Ratings
🗓️ 8 December 2023
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
The ability to develop intimacy within relationships is directly tied to how well you were able to attach to those who raised you. The quality of the bond to those you love matters and is the blueprint for all future relationships, including the one you have with your inner self. All humans develop a false self, the one they believe is who they indeed are, until their consciousness expands and they being to question this inner voice and wonder from where it truly comes.
How you feel about yourself may be the result of unhealed wounds as well as a lack of personal insight as to who you are in regards to your innate worth and divine essence. Feeling unworthy and needing to care for others are signs you were raised to worry more about others and how they felt about you than how you feel about yourself.
Welcome to the magical world of healing and transformation, as Lisa A. Romano helps us to better understand ourselves from a higher state of consciousness, beyond judgment, fear, or criticism. Here, you will learn to understand yourself, and in that new expanded space of self awareness, you will give birth to choice. You are not your thoughts, emotions, past, trauma, memories or patterns. You are a facet of the divine, and until you know that, you believe what your brain and emotions tell you.
If you are ready to work with Lisa and to become part of a incredible, conscious community of those who are ready to heal their lives by transforming their consciousness, visit;
https://www.lisaaromano.com/bwm
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness |
| 0:24.9 | rather than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope |
| 0:32.8 | as you spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.5 | So today I'd like to talk about the struggle we have with intimacy and the effect of |
| 0:46.1 | invisible wounds that we don't always recognize as being the cause of why we struggle |
| 0:53.2 | with being intimate and open in relationships. |
| 0:59.3 | And so this is a really important thing that we need to wrap our mind around if we are ever |
| 1:05.7 | going to be truly fulfilled as spiritual and emotional, cognitive human beings. |
| 1:13.4 | The ability to show ourselves and reveal ourselves to other people |
| 1:20.0 | allows us to experience love in a way that helps us expand and grow. We know that we're social creatures. We know that when we are |
| 1:33.0 | bonded with other people, and when we feel loved and accepted and nurtured, and when we know that we can |
| 1:42.1 | come to someone that we care about with our boo-boos, |
| 1:46.4 | and they will hold the space for us, that that is a beautiful feeling. |
| 1:51.4 | In the space of love, we're able to heal in miraculous ways. |
| 1:56.5 | In the absence of love, we experience dis-ease. |
| 2:00.0 | Many of my clients come from alcoholic backgrounds, emotional neglect, dysfunction, and enmeshment in families. |
| 2:09.2 | And many of them, although on the outside, you would think that they have pretty amazing lives. |
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