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Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Are You Living for Others and Ignoring Your Authentic Self?

Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Lisa A. Romano

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness

4.8805 Ratings

🗓️ 11 December 2023

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

All humans are born asleep, and dream in duality, falsely believing the thoughts, emotions, perceptions, and opinions they hear their minds wrestling with are facts. Yet, they are the result of mental constructs and subjective in nature. In the West, we are not taught to question the quality or source of our thinking. Instead, we live below the veil of consciousness, and assume, without any critical analysis, that all we think is absolute. This is why humans have the ability to harm one another and why nations find it difficult to get along. The ego does not see, nor does it want to see the big picture. If it did, it would die. 

The emotional healing journey is complex, and without the ability to question what you think, how you feel, and how you live your life, you are a slave to the past, and mental constructs and live your life unaware you are unaware. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano will help you to think more critically about the way you think and live your life.  When you grow up feeling unworthy, and invisible, natural default survival settings govern your emotional and mental bodies. You are a reactionay being, vs a creative, autonomous being who knows who they are and who they are not. 

If you do not know you are living for others at the expense of your authentic self, you have a problem you do not know you have, and without identifying the problem, there is no solution, only stuckness. 

If you are ready to work with Lisa and benefit from her enormous library of training resources, and join her private Membership community of those whose mission it is to breakthrough the chains of the past so to finally live an authentic life while helping to shift human consciousness forward, visit:

https://www.lisaaromano.com/bwm

 

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

0:06.0

My name is Lisa A. Romano.

0:08.0

I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse.

0:16.0

I am a believer in the power of an organized mind.

0:20.0

My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness, rather

0:25.8

than living a reactive life.

0:28.3

May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you

0:33.5

spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

0:39.6

Today, we're going to be talking about the six signs that you're living your life for others

0:44.7

and not for yourself. So today we're going to be talking about the warning signs that we are

0:50.0

someone who is losing ourselves to other people and to relationships. And I think it's important

0:56.7

to start from the position that it is normal to want to feel connected to other people.

1:03.0

It is normal to want to gain a sense of validation or affirmation from other people,

1:08.8

but not at the expense of the self. When we are codependent, we are seeking a sense of enoughness from someone or something

1:16.4

or some experience outside of ourselves.

1:18.9

So think about this idea of co.

1:20.7

I'm co-dependent upon my children.

1:23.4

I'm co-dependent upon my husband's affirmation of me or his affirming of me as a person and as a good

1:31.3

person. I am co-dependent upon what my family thinks about me. And if my family and my friends

1:38.2

think I'm good, then I have a pretty positive self-image. The problem is it's not our self-image.

1:46.5

The problem is that we have given over our right to feel good about the self,

1:51.3

over to the hands of people who are just as wounded and just as imperfect as we are.

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