Confessions Of a Cheater: The 3 Signs To Catch Before the Heartbreak | Laterras R. Whitfield PT 1

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 13 December 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Today we’re unveiling the truth behind cheating. Join me for a thought-provoking two-part episode of Women of Impact where I sit down with Latteras Whitfield for a candid conversation about cheating, which I'll admit is going to be a bit triggering for some of you. Together, we delve deep into the reasons behind Latteras' infidelity and provide valuable insights for women dealing with the aftermath of this painful betrayal. Laterras, the author of Dear Future Wifey, opens up about his personal experiences of cheating multiple times on his ex-wife. He emphasizes that his cheating was never about her but rather a reflection of his own lack of integrity. We explore the factors that contribute to cheating, such as unmet needs, contention, and the misconception that sex with other women means nothing to a married man. This conversation touches on angles we rarely think about, such as the failure of counseling and the lack of open discussions about what sex truly looks like within a marriage. Laterras shares a heart-breaking story about a feather that taught him a valuable lesson on intimacy and unmet needs. And ladies, there's a powerful lesson in it for you too. I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear, but my goal is to provide healing and foster better conversations in the future. I want you to be able to spot the signs of cheating and take action accordingly, with absolutely no judgment if you decide to stay or leave that relationship. Subscribe to Women of Impact for more thought-provoking content that addresses the silent struggles we face in relationships and in life. Communication and understanding are key to saving broken hearts and facilitating healing in today's complex world of love and commitment. For further insights on navigating the challenges and building strong, resilient partnerships check out Laterras' book, Dear Future Wifey: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Future-Wifey/dp/B08K58WDPT Follow Laterras Whitfield: Website: https://www.kingdomroyale.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/DearFutureWifey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield/ SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:53.7	All right, ladies, this is one of those episodes that I've got to warn you ahead of time.
0:58.1	If you've been heartbroken by a partner who's actually cheated on you, well, today's
1:02.2	episode may feel a little triggering and painful.
1:05.5	But honestly, truthfully, my hope is that by the end of this two-part episode, the transparency of today's
1:11.7	guest, a man who's actually cheated multiple times, Nataris Whitfield, you'll find hopefully
1:18.0	a bit of healing and a path to better conversations in the future.
1:22.3	Now, a cheating partner isn't, I repeat, is not about you. Period. End of. That's it. But we're going to explore
1:31.5	where masturbation, unmet needs and contention created a perfect storm for a broken man to cheat.
1:38.5	And we go over the three signs you'll be able to spot so you can take action and move in accordance. I'm just going to repeat,
1:46.0	guys, this is not about making excuses for men who cheat. Hells to the no. Telling you that right now.
1:53.9	But this is about empowering women to spot the signs and choose to have productive conversations
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