Well, each week we start the normal pattern, at least I do, with the show, of welcome

to the show.

But this time I'm going to do something different.

Although I just said welcome to the show, so I kind of still follow the same pattern.

Which we are just creatures of habit, aren't we?

But there's a cartoon that I came across that was talking about this concept of mind mapping,

how we can kind of read each other and know a little bit about what the other person's thinking,

doing.

Okay.

Who they are, I mean, in marriage it's particularly prevalent in parenting, it's prevalent

too, but it's also prevalent in other areas.

But there's a cartoon that depicts this that Shnarsh talks about in this book that a woman

comes into the kitchen to find her husband spraying the bottom side of a cookie sheet with the

cooking spray.

Okay.

But it's the bottom outside of the cookie sheet.

Not where you normally cook.

And she's like, what are you doing?

Well, your dad and I wanted some cookies, so I'm making a batch and it said spray the outside

of the cookie sheet.

So that's what I'm doing.

To which she then you could see from her facial reaction, she's like, comment or such idiots

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