Communication Is A Lubrication

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2021

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.

Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot freer.

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0:00.0	I think you get comfortable speaking about it by speaking about it.
0:10.2	When you start to say the things that you think you cannot say, you'll find that there
0:13.7	are the people who are like, wow, thank you for sharing.
0:16.5	Oh, I know someone who had that same situation.
0:19.6	And your people, the ones that you want to be with and that you want to have sex with
0:23.7	and be intimate and have in your life as friends or lovers are not the ones that are going
0:27.5	to make you feel bad, they're going to judge you, they're going to stigmatize you and
0:31.8	make you feel less than.
0:35.8	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:37.7	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:43.4	around sex.
0:45.6	Here's a secret.
0:47.0	The number one obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes
0:52.6	down to exactly one thing.
0:55.2	Communication.
0:56.8	It's not a cliche.
0:58.3	It's a skill.
0:59.3	And on today's Ask Emily Show, we're talking our way to better sex.
1:03.6	So let's bravely face the awkwardness with communication hacks for even the most nerve
1:08.0	racking of combos.
1:10.2	Clamming up during sex talks, I've got a confident building solution for that.
1:14.3	How about giving tough feedback like asking for better hand jobs or addressing a funky
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