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The Emotionally Healthy Leader Podcast

Coaching the Genogram: A Powerful Tool to Deeply Form Leaders

The Emotionally Healthy Leader Podcast

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality

Newlifefellowship, Religion & Spirituality, Leadership, Richvillodas, Petescazzero, Emotionallyhealthyspirituality, Christianity, Faith, Peterscazzero, Churchleaders, Spirituality, Emotionallyhealthy, Newyork, Pastor

4.8673 Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2023

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

As a pastor or leader, your primary role is to develop and disciple others.

More than simply "getting things done", we are called to prioritize the growth and maturity of the people and leaders around us. We do this by learning particular skills and tools with which we can coach our leaders, our team, and those in our ministry. 
 
One game-changing tool that I use to coach others is called the “Genogram”.

The genogram is a powerful visual map to document the history and dynamics of our family relationships and their impact on us, over three to four generations.
 
In today's episode, I share the 6 stages I use to coach other leaders through the Genogram so that you can do the same.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, my name is Pete Scazzaro.

0:06.4

Want to welcome you today to the Emotionally Healthy Leader Podcast.

0:10.8

Now, today's title is Coaching the Genogram, a powerful tool to deeply form leaders.

0:19.1

Actually, this is the first of three tools that I believe, and we believe,

0:24.3

needs to be in the toolbox of every leader in order to deeply change your church, your ministry,

0:32.1

the leaders that you're leading. Now, the primary work of every pastor, every leader,

0:36.2

whether this church or nonprofit, even

0:38.0

those of you who are in the marketplace, is to develop people, that is disciple people,

0:42.7

and thus create a culture, a disciple-making culture, not just in people's roles, but actually

0:48.9

in their development, their maturity as disciples, as followers of Christ.

0:53.3

Now, this happens by, of course, us doing our own

0:55.9

work and learning particular skills or means to coach or mentor our leaders, our teams, those in

1:03.8

our ministry. So today's podcast focuses on the genogram. The genogram is a powerful visual tool to document the history and

1:13.6

dynamics of our family relationships and their impact on us going back three to four generations.

1:20.3

It's a core part of our entire work called Emotionally Healthy Discipleship. But before we launch

1:26.3

into it, let me just say a few words of why

1:28.9

a tool like this is so worth your time and investment to master. Now just think of this with me

1:37.5

for a moment. God so loves the world more than we could ever, ever imagine. And he comes to earth

1:43.3

in a person of Jesus, and he engages

1:45.1

in a brief three-year ministry, massive crowds flock to him, and he teaches, he heals, he drives out

1:52.4

demons, people experience miracles. But he chooses 12. 12 people who we'd say were at least messed up on multiple levels, folks who actually had a faulty

2:05.3

understanding of God and Jesus, they had worldliness that they picked up from their culture,

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