If a couple isn't emotionally connected, let's say, or interested and curious about each other's

feelings and willing to look at each other and talk about that, then they're minimally

co-regulating.

It's like they're breathing through a straw. What's up and welcome back to another episode of the

relationship schools podcast? Howdy, greetings and I'm grateful to have the privilege of working on myself and sharing

sharing some tools with you all and some influencers, some experts, and some musings from the conversation around growth and development

around in our relationships, in our relational life.

I think it's, I really believe that right now more than ever holding each other

close is essential holding each other close is really important when there's a war going on.

Yeah, so I'm just grateful for my freedom and for being able to do this with you right now.

In this episode, it's my wife and I,

and we're just having a conversation, really.

We're going to experiment with recording our conversations and because sometimes some of the most

amazing shit comes out of our collective conversations and we just want to share some of these with you.

So this is an experiment.

If you like this, let us know.

If you don't like it, let us know.

I'm moving away from kind of the expert just talks at you format, although I will still

bring in experts who do that because I learn that way.

Sometimes I like that.

But I'm experimenting with, you know, just having intimate in-depth conversations with people I care about, about the things I care about, knowing that it's going to serve you in some way.

So please enjoy.

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