Closing the Orgasm Gap

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 8 September 2021

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Join Dr. Finlayson-Fife and host Ariel Finlinson of the "Ladies Talking Love" podcast (@ladies.talkinglove) to discuss what you can do to challenge unhealthy meanings that are operating in your relationship and how to create a more robust sexual relationship with your partner. Listen to the full podcast to learn more about: * Challenging the meanings that are putting the breaks on your orgasm * Developing a greater capacity for joy and receiving * Creating sex worth wanting * How to expand your sexual capacity * The vital role of freedom and choice in passion and sexual intimacy To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions. Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment. The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever. The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife Podcast Archive, where you have access to all the amazing
0:06.5	insights Dr. Finlayson Fife has shared through hundreds of interviews.
0:11.1	I'm Mackenzie, Dr. Finlayson Fife's assistant and we are so glad that you're here.
0:18.0	I'm so excited to welcome Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife until ladies talking love today.
0:22.4	Thanks so much for joining me Drayson Fife on to ladies talking love today.
0:22.5	Thanks so much for joining me, Dr. Fife.
0:24.6	Thanks for having me.
0:25.8	Before we get started, can you just give us a little background
0:28.2	about how you first got interested in studying sexuality?
0:31.8	As a young person, I always cared a lot about relationships and why people did the things they did. I was definitely a social scientist at a young age without having a name for it and you know I eventually decided that I wanted to really study to be a therapist and particularly to address marriage relationships.
0:52.8	I've loved learning from you and you've done such awesome work so I'm so happy to have you on today.
0:58.0	So before we jump into kind of this orgasm gap we see a lot in women not being able to reach orgasm as much as men.
1:05.3	Can you give us a definition? What is an orgasm? You know I tend to talk about
1:10.1	this way we have two thresholds in our body when it comes to arousal
1:13.7	and orgasm there's the arousal threshold so this is when your vagina starts to
1:17.6	lubricate more blood flow goes to the general area you're becoming
1:21.4	physiologically aroused.
1:23.4	Okay, for men that's an erection, right?
1:26.6	And then with ongoing high quality and quantity of stimulation,
1:31.6	and that can be both psychological and physical. You will eventually get to your
1:36.7	orgasm threshold. Okay. And if you have enough of that positive stimulation to get over the orgasm threshold, then you will experience the most positive
1:46.6	reflex that the human body knows, which is a non-chosen response, where your body will have an orgasm.
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