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So you're in, first of all, thank you for doing this. You're in the middle of a nationwide tour

speaking live before big audiences, and there's a Q&A component in every

every gig, every performance and you're getting questions directly from young men. What kind of

questions are you getting consistently? A lot of them are on directionlessness. I'm out of full-time education. I'm in my early 20s,

or I've just left a relationship, or I've worked for a while and got myself to a state of success

that felt unfulfilling to me, and I don't know where to go. And I think that this sort of speaks

to the lost archetypes,

the train tracks and the examples that would have previously been laid out for young men.

And directionlessness is a huge one.

Trying to find a balance between drive to improve and gratitude and self-love for the moment.

The sort of You Are Enough versus Hustle Bro blend, guys want to be able to go and conquer.

They want to really achieve things in the world.

But also they realize that if they're permanently looking over the shoulder of the present moment

waiting to see what comes next, they might miss their lives.

You know, there's this idea called the delayed happiness hypothesis, which is basically that as people move through life, they always

promise that happiness will arrive when. Once I have got the graduation, once I've got the next

job, once I've got the girlfriend, once I've got the house, once I've got the next job, once I've got the girlfriend,

once I've got the house, once I've paid off the mortgage. And what you realize is that this

idyll that you were running toward is actually your death and you've just speed ran your entire life.

I think that they're becoming increasingly more aware of that, which is good. I think it's

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