Choosing a Lube (Quickie)
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
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🗓️ 3 July 2025
⏱️ 2 minutes
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Summary
This week's quickie is from J Parker about choosing a lubricant for sexual intimacy.
A few lube recommendations:
- Sliquid Organics Natural Water-Based Personal Lubricant | Married Dance
- Swiss Navy Premium Silicone Based Lubricant | Amazon
- Aloe Cadabra Organic Personal Lubricant | Married Dance (water-based)
- Sliquid Naturals Silver Silicone Based Personal Lubricant | Married Dance
- Sliquid Swirl Flavored Lube (they have a lot of flavors, but this variety pack is a good starting place) | Amazon
- Jo Flavored Lube (taste a little like Jolly Ranchers) | Amazon
- Aloe Cadabra Flavored Lubes | Amazon
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, it's Jay Parker with this week's sex chat quickie. Sometimes you're down south doesn't get as wet as needed for sex to feel good. When that happens, it's time to add some personal lubricant. Let's talk about choosing the right one for you. Lubricant types include water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based. Each has its pros and cons. Water-based |
| 0:21.8 | lube is easy to apply and clean up, but it doesn't last as long. Silicon-based lasts longer and |
| 0:27.0 | especially good for sexual activity and water, but it's sticky and thus harder to clean up. |
| 0:31.7 | Coconut oil is all-natural, but it tends to break down the latex and condoms. There are other |
| 0:36.7 | considerations, of course. |
| 0:38.0 | For instance, if you're looking for an oral sex option, make sure it's ingestible and maybe |
| 0:42.7 | flavored. If you have allergies or sensitivities, check ingredients carefully and lean toward |
| 0:47.8 | an organic, all-natural option. And if you want to try a lube that warms or tingles, test a small |
| 0:53.6 | area down there first, because |
| 0:55.3 | it could be exciting or discomforting, depending on your skin. I know this one for personal |
| 1:00.7 | experience. I went with that instruction to apply liberally and ended up running to the bathroom |
| 1:05.5 | to wash off that stuff as fast as possible. Anyway, you may want to keep a few different lubs |
| 1:10.5 | around so that you can pick the one that works for your marital intimacy menu that day. Anyway, you may want to keep a few different loops around so that you can |
| 1:11.4 | pick the one that works for your marital intimacy menu that day. Now, you don't need to spend a ton of |
| 1:15.8 | money on a good lubricant, but I have noticed a difference between budget loops and middle-to-hire |
| 1:20.1 | priced brands. So look for quality. After all, you're only using a little bit each time, |
| 1:24.9 | so even a small bottle lasts a while. Plus, this is your Vajajai girlfriend. |
| 1:29.4 | Treat it well. |
| 1:30.6 | We'll include a few recommendations in our show notes. |
| 1:33.3 | Now, go do something that requires you to pull out some lube. |
| 1:36.7 | As they say, better when wet. |
| 1:39.0 | That's it for this week's sex check wiki. |
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