You need to look at this girl that you're dating and say, in five years, when she wants to crucify me,

am I still going to want to lay down my life for her? Because that's the standard that you've been given to live up to.

And before you're married, you have the choice.

What is wrong with modern dating?

Are we confusing chemistry with compatibility?

We have to talk about this topic.

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Dad?

I got this all figured out, James.

I found my woman. And we've got six kids.

Bro, I'm your guy, Dr. Love. Just call me Dr. Love.

I know. I might have to straighten some stuff out with you, though.

I love this topic, James. But first, I want to remind you guys about ADF. This is the Alliance Defending Freedom Doing Awesome Things. These are superhero lawyers all across the country who are defending the rights of people who love God, love their family, and love this country.

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Okay, James, let's dive right into it.

We're talking about compatibility versus chemistry in dating and pursuing your mate. Okay, let's define our terms. What is chemistry?

Chemistry is the immediate emotional connection that you feel with somebody. So that could be

attraction or energy or excitement or it could be conversation flowing naturally or having fun or just kind of being able to be

yourself around somebody.

Now let's talk about compatibility.

What's compatibility?

Compatibility is a lot less of do we have fun together, but are we aligned and can we build a

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