It was nothing that he ever tried to hide for me, but honestly I had just never looked down at his hand.

And one day I did and it was just like, oh.

This is death sex and money.

I'm sorry. Are you speaking to me or sleeping with someone else?

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

Anyway, the word is carries around a lot of cash.

And need to talk about more.

Live for nothing,

or die for something.

I'm Anna Sale.

Having an affair seems like such... I'm Anna Sale.

Having an affair seems like such a big decision. Of course, it's really a series of small choices.

Once it actually finally happened and we started making out, I said, fuck!

And he was like, what? And I was like, I hoped you were going to be so bad at this.

You're going to hear a lot of cheating stories in this episode.

I'm going to start with one.

Ali in Massachusetts met the guys she called her married boyfriend through work. They hit it off and

started emailing and texting jokes to each other. He lived in another town so they'd

only see each other occasionally. Each time she felt pulled further in.

She was 29, single, and had never felt this way about someone,

even though she knew he had a wife, a two-year-old,

and an infant at home. I would say there was probably a two-week

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