This is real love a Valentine's Special from death, sex and money.

And she inexplicably mails me a cactus every Valentine's Day.

The show from WNYC about the things we think allegedly mails me a cactus every Valentine's Day.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot,

It doesn't matter whose fault the breakup was, okay?

I need to talk about more.

I'm Anna Sale and on this Valentine's Day we're going to get real.

I like having love in my life. I don't seem to have been so successful at it, having had three

husbands. Since I started this show I've talked with lots of people, some famous, some not, about their lives.

Love always seems to find a way into the conversation.

Being with her is the greatest joy of my life. I was incredibly heartbroken at the time. I get jealous

but I don't tell her that. So this Valentine's Day, let's celebrate with some real love stories.

The kind of love, like Mary Jay famously said,

that's worth searching for and working for.

I went to a couple's therapist.

I realized part of the problem was mine.

In the next hour you'll hear from Jane Fonda,

who told me she gave up on marriage.

I went seven years sell of it, and I thought that was it.

Now in her 70s, she lives with her boyfriend, but still says marriage is not for her.

Later on, sex columnist Dan Savage talks about what he and his husband argue about most, the answer might surprise you.

Country Musicians, Jason Isbel and Amanda Shires, talk about falling in love and confronting

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