Charli D’Amelio ON: How Our Thoughts Define Our Reality & Ways to Shift Self-Criticism Into Curiosity
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
iHeartPodcasts
4.7 • 30.5K Ratings
🗓️ 30 October 2023
⏱️ 100 minutes
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Summary
Do you want to shift your thoughts to change your reality?
Do you want to shift your self- criticism into compassion?
Today I welcome Charli D’Amelio, a digital superstar, crowned “the reigning queen of TikTok,” by The New York Times. Charli was the first on the platform to hit 100 million followers and is the current leading female TikTok creator with over 150 million followers, making her the most followed person on the platform. Now Charli is one of the most recognizable faces online, in print and on screen with her family’s Hulu docuseries, The D’Amelio Show.
In this interview, Charli doesn’t hold anything back. She openly discusses how she preserves her self-esteem and identity while navigating the challenges of online bullying and fame. She talks about her breaking point and what led her to change the way she talked to herself by implementing self-compassion. It’s a reminder that checking in with yourself is important in order to sort out emotions and assess your physical and emotional needs.
In this interview, you will learn
The importance of being kind to yourself
How to tap into your authentic self
How to rediscover yourself and giving yourself permission to be
The power of learning to trust yourself and your decisions
Strengthening your ability to bounce back from setbacks.
How to voice your needs to those around you.
Join us in a conversation of self-exploration, where we explore the depths of self-awareness and empower you to build trust in yourself and your choices.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:34 Did Charli Just Get Lucky?!
5:50 Charli’s Online Identity vs. Her Real-life Persona
11:26 Learning To Focus On What Actually Matters
13:43 On Losing Her Identity 19:10 Finding Joy In Everyday Life
25:00 How To Be Less Self-critical
29:00 Treating Your Friends With Kindness
32:43 Navigating Difficult Family Dynamics
36:43 What It’s Like To Film A Reality TV Show
39:10 On Being Trust In The Adult World At The Age of
16 45:24 Gossip, Rumors, and Clickbait
47:38 Being Friends With Other Influencers
50:15 Having A Famous Boyfriend
54:28 Learning To Ignore The Haters
58:34 Raising Her New Puppy!
1:00:30 Finding Her Personal Style
1:02:00 Learning To Use Her Voice
1:09:40 Finding Peace With Animals
1:13:15 Visiting Africa
1:17:30 Charli D'Amelio On Final Five
Episode Resources:
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Charli D'Amelio | TikTok
Charli D'Amelio | YouTube
Charli D'Amelio | Twitter
Charli D'Amelio | Facebook
Charli D'Amelio | Website
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| 0:00.0 | The street stoic podcast is back. |
| 0:03.4 | We are combining hip hop lyrics and quotes |
| 0:05.9 | from some of the greatest to ever grace a microphone. |
| 0:09.1 | It's a line from Lauren Hill, and she says, |
| 0:11.8 | don't be a hard rock when you really are again. |
| 0:15.3 | Along with ancient wisdom from some of the greatest |
| 0:18.1 | philosophers of all time. |
| 0:20.1 | Seneca, right? |
| 0:21.0 | And he says, your mind will take shape |
| 0:23.0 | of what you frequently hold in thought. |
| 0:25.3 | For the human spirit is colored by such impression. |
| 0:29.2 | Listen, a season two of the street stoic podcast |
| 0:31.8 | on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcast, |
| 0:34.4 | or whatever you get your podcasts. |
| 0:36.9 | It was one day no one cared what I did, |
| 0:39.1 | no one cared what I wore, what I looked like, |
| 0:41.3 | what I said, and then all of a sudden, |
| 0:43.7 | that was all anyone to talk about. |
| 0:45.4 | I think back to some of the things that I said in interviews, |
| 0:49.3 | yeah, hate comments don't bother me. |
| 0:50.8 | And I was like, you went home and cried all night |
| 0:53.3 | because of it. |
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