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Hi, I'm Jimmy Evans, co-host of The Marriage Today podcast. Today we have a great

teaching for you that I pray grows your marriage and blesses you as you seek to

center your marriage on Christ. Be sure to subscribe to this podcast channel to be notified

of every new show. God bless you.

I want to begin with a premise in this message and this is a very important premise in this message.

We seek marriage for many reasons but one of the most important is that we are all incomplete

and unhealed and we're looking for a spouse to fix that. Why do we choose the spouse that we choose?

It's because we're incomplete and unhealed and we're looking for a spouse to change that.

Karen and I dated and I think like most people date. We fell in love. We were I met Karen when

we were sophomores at Tesco's in high school and we were in sophomore biology class together and

I thought that she was very beautiful and I asked her out in May of that year I asked her out to

a three dog night concert. How many of you remember three dog night? Raise your hands and encourage me.

Yeah, it's not the younger people that raise their hand. It's the mature people like me.

But we went to a three dog night concert and we loved each other and so we dated for a while and

but as soon as I secured the relationship with Karen I began to take her for granted and I think

that's very common and we began to fight. I call it the performance phase of the relationship.

We were performing for each other and putting our best foot forward but as soon as we had secured

each other that's when we began to act normal which for me was not good and we began to fight

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