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LOVE MURDER

Catfish Conspiracy: The Murders of Christine Banfield and Joseph Ryan

LOVE MURDER

Jessie Pray and Andie Cassette

True Crime, Comedy

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 November 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

When a husband walks in on a stranger attacking his wife, he responds with lethal force. The police immediately respond to the bizarre but seemingly straightforward scene, however after some things don’t add up, the investigators take a closer look at all of those who lived in the house — and the secrets they were keeping.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Your first great love story is free when you sign up for a free 30-day trial at audible.co.

0:05.5

com.uk-Uk.w-wondery. That's audible.com.uk slash wondering. All right, Jesse, I'm happy to be back on this side of the desk, and I guess country. What's the story this week?

0:18.2

When a husband walks in on a stranger attacking his wife, he responds with lethal force.

0:23.1

The police immediately respond to the bizarre but seemingly straightforward scene.

0:27.5

However, after some things just don't add up, the investigators take a closer look at all of those who lived in the house and the secrets they were keeping.

0:35.9

I'm Andy Cassette.

0:36.9

And I'm Jesse Prey, and this is Love Murder, a podcast about

1:10.4

suspicious kisses, fatal wishes, and love gone fatally wrong.

1:14.6

You can find Love Murder on TikTok and Instagram at Love Murder Pod and on Facebook by searching Love Murder Podcast.

1:20.5

If you are enjoying this show, please Love Slash Murder, a five-star rating on your podcast app.

1:26.0

Subscribe and review. It really helps, especially Apple, push out our podcast to more people. And then more people get to find Love Murder. So we really love it when you guys do that. Also, if you're interested in supporting the show more directly, head on over to patreon.com slash Love Murder Pod where you can learn all about the different tiers of support. And lucky for you guys, because it's a shorter intro, we don't have any patrons because we recorded last week's episode yesterday.

1:51.5

Yep.

1:52.3

So it is a tight intro this time.

1:55.6

So, Andy, I'll be interested to see if you recognize this case, because it is something we very briefly covered

2:02.9

for current affairs. Okay. And it was something that I referenced when we did an O'Pair case a few

2:11.5

weeks back. I said this is the second of three that we are planning to do. So this is kind of like

2:16.9

our Opaire trilogy.

2:18.6

Our first episode was way back at episode 50.

2:22.4

Now this is, I think, 281.

2:25.1

And that was Stephen and Tara Grant.

2:28.5

And I think that one we called the Opaire Affair.

2:31.2

And then, of course, you guys will remember

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