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Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 12 May 2026

⏱️ 37 minutes

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On Today’s live podcast recording from April 9, 2026, I answer your real questions about masturbation, insecurity, kink, communication, and how to improve your sex life with curiosity and openness. We talk about why masturbation is a healthy part of a thriving relationship, how to overcome insecurities about sexual experience, and the importance of communication and exploration. I also dive into how to bring solo techniques into partnered sex, why self-consciousness during intimacy can kill arousal, and how to keep desire alive through changes in life stages. This episode is all about prioritizing pleasure, understanding your body, and learning to feel more confident in your sexuality. No matter your experience, there’s always room to grow and enjoy better, more fulfilling sex. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! Chapters: 0:00 Welcome to Sex with Emily 2:14 Masturbation in Relationships Isn’t Cheating 5:44 Kinks, Bondage & Presence 7:25 Inexperienced in Bed & Becoming a Better Lover 9:57 Solo Orgasms, Porn, & Partnered Sex Explained 14:13 Body Confidence During Sex 18:28 Emily’s New Book 19:40 Can Lesbians Enjoy Anal Pleasure? 22:06 Perimenopause & Low Libido 23:47 Why Some People Can Only Orgasm Alone 26:17 How to Be an Ethical “F-Boy” 29:14 Trouble Finishing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Okay, so if you've been listening to this show for a while, you know I'm not about random
0:03.2	sex toys or gimmicks. I'm about tools that actually support your pleasure, your communication, and your connection. Well, that's exactly why we created the shop, Sex with Emily's Store. Everything in there is curated by me and my team, and these are products I trust, I recommend to clients, and what tell my friends about. I do tell my friends about. It's what I talk about
0:20.9	all the time. Whether you're exploring solo pleasure, looking to reconnect with a partner,
0:24.8	or you really just want something body safe and beginner friendly. We've organized it so you
0:29.2	don't feel overwhelmed. People love the dame pillow for supported sex. The Magic Wand
0:34.2	waterproof. Oh my God, it's so good. Cray Vesper, massage candles, Joe-flavored
0:38.8	Loube, We Vibe Touch, clitoral vibrators. There's just so many things on there because pleasure
0:43.4	shouldn't be confusing. It should feel empowering. You can check it out at shop.sexwithemly.com
0:49.0	and find something that supports where you are right now or just click the link in the show notes.
0:53.6	Also, keep an eye out for
0:55.0	curated collections coming soon. Instagram teen accounts with automatic protections on who can
1:00.5	contact teenagers and the content they can see. Instagram teen accounts have contact limits on by
1:06.7	default. So teenagers get messages from people they know, not strangers, and default content
1:13.2	settings. Plus, teenagers under 16 can't change these default settings without parental approval.
1:19.9	So parents can help teenagers connect safely. Learn more at Instagram.com slash teen accounts.
1:26.7	But know that masturbation is not a replacement for you in the relationship at all.
1:31.5	It's really just a different kind of release.
1:34.3	Because one of the biggest challenges that we leave our body during sex, we're thinking
1:38.2	about other things, work, the kids.
1:41.1	When I define good sex as being an attentive, consensual, communicative, open lover,
1:47.0	just because you've been with more people and more experience doesn't necessarily make you a great lover.
1:52.0	It's just our own egos, our own judgments, our shame that we're somehow not enough for our partners.
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