Caroline H & The Double Life Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, Sexual Abuse, IPV

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 19 December 2022

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

It only took six weeks for Caroline's partner to begin his devaluation. As the years went on, the things Caroline's partner claimed to love about her, were the very things he started to use against her. From Caroline's appearance to her laugh to her jobs, Caroline's partner picked fights about everything and then blamed her for getting upset. However, this all came to a head just weeks before Caroline's wedding, when she uncovered a horrifying secret life. It's a story of gaslighting, perfectionism, doubling down, physical abuse, sexual abuse/assault, psychological abuse, infidelity, put downs, blame shifting, healing, crazy making, doubt, fear of failure, shame, embarrassment, isolation, escape plans, support, double lives, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and graphic descriptions of sexual abuse/assault. *** Here are all the links to reach Caroline H and download everything she mentioned in this episode. For access to Caroline, along with a FREE PDF download of resources and partner programs, contact Caroline at: https://intentionallyfearlessmission.com/carolinemarkelhammond Social Media: LinkedIn: Caroline Markel Hammond LinkedIn Facebook: Caroline Markel Hammond on Facebook Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caroline.markel.hammond/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Caroline_MH4 Facebook: Safe In Harm's Way on Facebook LinkedIn: Safe In Harm's Way on LinkedIn LinkedIn: Epizon Strategy Solutions on LinkedIn Twitter: Safe In Harm's Way on Twitter Instagram: Safe In Harm's Way on Instagram Spotify: Maya Jane Clark Playlist and Morning Prayer Dance and Listener Supported YouTube: Safe In Harm's Way on YouTube Anchor: Podcast: Safe In Harm's Way on Anchor If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor NOBODY SHOULD BELIEVE ME PODCAST. I loved this podcast. And you can find the podcast website by clicking here or at Apple Podcasts by clicking here. You can reach the host Andrea Dunlop at her website by clicking here or you can reach her on Instagram by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Caroline H.
0:07.3	And Caroline H was married to an abuser with a double life.
0:11.4	It's a story of perfectionism, doubling down, sexual abuse, the water torturer, and escape plans.
0:35.6	Music water torturer and escape plans. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today we have Caroline. How are you?
0:48.1	I'm really good. Brandon, how are you? I am doing well and thank you so much for being here. And if you want to be a guest
0:56.3	on our show like Caroline is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com
1:02.3	top of the page. There's a button that says guest form. When you click on that button,
1:05.8	it takes you to our guest form page. Please do read all of the instructions and either send
1:10.8	us an email at Narcissist Apoclips at gmail.com or just do read all of the instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist
1:11.8	Apocalypse at gmail.com or just fill out our guest form and press this a bit button.
1:17.2	And today you are going to hear Caroline's story and a lot of trigger warnings for this episode,
1:24.0	physical abuse and sexual abuse.
1:26.4	This story, the sexual abuse in this story is hard to
1:31.2	listen to. It's something that I don't think we've ever had on this show before. I'm actually
1:37.1	going to be giving a warning right before it actually happens, which is unusual. But with this one, I think it's just in case
1:46.5	you're going to get a one last second trigger warning before it is talked about in this episode,
1:53.5	and Caroline will do so as well. So a big trigger warning for this episode. If this isn't for you,
2:00.7	please turn it off. And I really
2:03.5	just want to thank Caroline for being here with us today. This is not an easy story to tell. So really
2:10.6	just a big thank you. And Caroline, the floor is now yours. Thanks. I really appreciate you having me today. I think it's going to be a great opportunity to share a story and community because I know that when people share their stories, others feel less shame and alone in the world. So I'm happy to be here sharing
2:35.2	mine today. So my family, when I look back, it's far different now with knowledge I have than what I thought
2:43.0	it was better. So my growing up, my mom and dad were married for the entirety of their lives from, you know, about 20 years old on, to my dad passed away in March of 2020.
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