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🗓️ 16 November 2023
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Summary
On this episode: Zak, Jamilah and Elizabeth help a listener who’s struggling with a deep pessimism about the state of this country — and he wants to make sure that his kids have some hope to hold onto.
We also go over our week in parenting triumphs and fails. Then, if you’re sticking around for Slate Plus, we’ll share some strategies for explaining the war in Gaza to kids – and hopefully not frightening them in the process.
On that topic, here are some resources that our hosts wanted to share:
- From the New York Times: What I Told My Daughter About The War
- From NPR: How to talk to children about the violence in Israel and Gaza
- From The National Child Traumatic Stress Network: Talking to Children about War
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| 0:00.0 | This episode may contain explicit language. |
| 0:05.2 | Welcome to Mom and Daughter Fighting Slate's Parenting Podcasts for Thursday, November 16th, |
| 0:10.5 | The Finding Hope Edition. |
| 0:12.5 | I'm Elizabeth Newcamp. I write the family travel blog Dutch Dutch Goose. |
| 0:16.1 | I'm the mom of three littles, Henry who's 11, Oliver who's 9, and Teddy who's 7. |
| 0:20.4 | We live in Tokyo |
| 0:21.4 | Japan. I'm Jamila Lemieux, a writer, contributor to Slate's Karen feeding parents in column, |
| 0:28.0 | and mom to Naima, who's 10, and we live in Los Angeles. I'm Zach Rosen. I make another podcast |
| 0:34.6 | that's called The Best Advice Show, and I'm Dad to Noah, who's six, |
| 0:37.8 | and Ami, who's three. We live in Detroit. Well, today on the show, we've got a dad who's trying to find a little optimism in the face of the world's chaos. It's easy to slip into pessimism, so how can we avoid passing that on to our kids? We're also going to catch up on our weekend parenting, and then if you're in the Slate Plus Club, we're going to wade through a complicated issue. |
| 0:57.7 | How to talk about... our kids. We're also going to catch up on our weekend parenting, and then if you're in the |
| 0:54.4 | Slate Plus Club, we're going to wade through a complicated issue, how to talk to our kids about war. We're going to tell you what tips have stuck out to us and been the most helpful, and even if you're not in Slate Plus, we're going to be linking to resources on the show page. But here's what you'll hear if you have Slate Plus. |
| 1:11.5 | Yeah, I mean, we had been, yeah, I guess avoiding is the right word, |
| 1:15.1 | having the conversation with Noah about what's happening in Israel and Gaza |
| 1:19.5 | because it's so dark. |
| 1:22.1 | And I wasn't sure to what degree we could actually, like, |
| 1:26.1 | simplify what's happening in a way that wouldn't be so |
| 1:31.7 | upsetting. I mean, thousands of kids are dead. And I didn't, I wasn't sure if and how that |
| 1:39.7 | information to my six-year-old would be received or if it would be if it was necessary for her to know that. |
| 1:46.9 | But then, like, last week, she started asking me, like, what's an army? |
| 1:50.0 | And I wasn't sure where she got that information. |
| 1:54.8 | By becoming a Slate Plus member, you'll enjoy weekly bonus segments and all of your beloved Slate |
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