Hi, I'm Matthew Hussie, welcome to Love Life. It's a privilege to be able to offer you

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me. I'm going to tell you exactly how to do just that at the end of today's show. So

make sure you stay tuned. First, let's get to today's episode.

Today we're going to be talking about having it all. This is an interesting subject because

people give you all different opinions on this. You kind of have the first half of people

who look at you and sometimes cynically say, you know what, you can't have it all. I'm

sorry, you have to make sacrifices. You can't do that and that and that. You can't have

that partner and work really hard and go to the gym and do that hobby. You can't have

it all. And people kind of relish the chance to say that to us. But then there's the other

type of person who is that kind of happy, crappy, self-helpy person who's like, you can

have it all if you try. You know, if you just believe, you don't have to limit yourself.

You can have it all. It can be like that in life. And those people or the people we want

to strangle because we also know they don't live in the real world and they don't even

themselves have it all. Or they're not even living proof of that themselves. So they're

just wishful thinking. So what is the truth? And I heard someone ask me the other day,

which was an interesting point. They said, okay, if I've accepted that I can't have it

all, which part of it all should I focus on first? I think that there are two opposing

lessons that we often learn in life. And they're not actually opposing, but on the surface

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