Can you find yourself after they stop the hurtful behavior?
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 1 March 2022
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
Sometimes the emotional abuse stops. If and when it does, will you know who you are? Do you know where you went? Sometimes we lose ourselves in relationships like this because we are so busy trying to make the other person happy so they won't make us miserable. But that's probably not who you wanted to be. Finding yourself again can be the next challenge after the emotional abuse stops.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:20.9 | Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Welcome to another episode of love and abuse. All the information on this show is meant for |
| 0:35.7 | educational purposes only. |
| 0:42.5 | Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being, and always pick your battles wisely. |
| 0:44.9 | I'm glad you're here today. |
| 0:54.4 | I want to talk about something I talked about near the beginning of this podcast when I first created it back in February of 2019. |
| 0:56.6 | There was an episode that I came out with. |
| 0:59.6 | I think I called it, Am I the Manipulative One? |
| 1:07.5 | I wanted you to make sure that you knew who was being emotionally abusive, controlling, |
| 1:14.4 | manipulative, so that you understood where you fit in and where they fit in. |
| 1:22.4 | And throughout the last two, three, almost three years now, I have tried to help you understand where you fit in in the emotionally abusive relationship. |
| 1:27.7 | And I hope that I have done that. |
| 1:30.2 | I hope that I've been able to help you understand your role, where you fit in. |
| 1:37.0 | Are you the victim? |
| 1:38.2 | Are you the perpetrator? |
| 1:40.1 | Are you a little bit of both? |
| 1:43.4 | There are people that have written to me saying, |
| 1:46.0 | I have been a victim of this and I have also been hurtful. |
| 1:51.0 | My first question to somebody who says that to me is, |
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