These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

Politics.

Let's talk, no I'm kidding. I do want to talk about the division that politics creates,

but I'm not going to bring up politics.

I'm going to bring up how your values don't align with somebody else's

values and what does that create? What kind of division and resistance and tension does that create

between the both of you? But before we get into that I'm going to read a question

really quick and the TOB empowerment group.

If you're not familiar with it, it's on Facebook, it's called the overwhelmed brain empowerment group.

I've been running it for years and I call it the safest place on the internet if you want to join, it's available for you to join.

Feel free to look for it, the overwhelmed brain and empowerment group.

A person wrote a question in there a couple months back and said,

I'm feeling really lost and

unsure about what to do or think. My wife and I have been married since I guess

around 2000 and like any other couple we've had our ups and downs.

However, for some time now, my wife has shown

zero affection.

Whether I leave the house, come back, or work alongside her in the kitchen, there's no touch, no hug, and no kiss.

I can't pinpoint exactly when it started, but it's been going on for about five to eight years. I've talked to her about it, that's my emphasis, I've talked to her

about it but nothing has changed. I'm at my wit's end and I don't know what to do

next. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

And some people gave their thoughts and they were very good thoughts.

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