Can trust be rebuilt when you lied to your girl?

It can be, but trust is the hardest thing to get and the easiest thing to lose.

If somebody lies to you once, you got to call.

If it's your girl, she lies you and you catch her, you get to call her out on it.

And a woman with integrity will be remorseful and she'll apologize and she'll

say she's going to earn your trust back. But the only thing it matters is the actions. Because if

she's a ratchet and she's a liar, she's going to lie again and you're going to catch her in it

again. And if you catch her in another lie, it's like how many strikes you want to give her? Two strikes? Three strikes? What's a tape? If she's talking to a bunch of male orbiters that want to get in her pants and she tells you that she's cut all of them off and then three months later, the same, you know, you see her phone popping up and, you know, her message is that she's still talking to the guy. it's like, you know, you look at what people do, not what they say. People with character will do the right thing. And people that don't, you'll catch them again. They'll screw you over again because that's just who they are. It's just like the scorpion and the frog analogy. Yeah, I was about to say that. If you believe in zodiacs, you don't want to lie to a Scorpio because you'll never gain their dress again.

That's for sure. That's the same with water signs. I'm on the same boat, too, because we're both water signs. Yeah. I'm a fire sign. So I'm urged. You're a Scorpio? Yeah. She's a Scorpio. They take trust really seriously. Well, any water sign, really. But Scorpio's known for it. It's literally the one thing they said, don't break a Scorpio's dress. Yeah. It's the worst thing you could do. I get it because you're like a twin to my brother. If we're going to talk more about zodiac signs, I'm not trying to add any kind of, I guess, signs.

And I have friends that are air signs.

So I've noticed that sometimes air signs are, they're notorious when it comes to lying.

What's an air sign?

So air signs is, sorry guys, Aquarius, Gemini, and Libra. Oh, okay. Aquarius is air? I thought it was water. No. I'm Aquarius. Your air. I'm air, bro. I'm like the air that you breathe. Earth, air, fire, water. But, yeah, I just...

Yeah, it's just when it comes to lying, it's really hard to rebuild that trust, and it gets, like, very anxiety-driven.

So, like, if you're thinking worst-case scenario of cheating, oh, boy, that's going to be very, very, very difficult.

And, again, anxiety-driven. You're always always on your toes on the edge that, you know, okay, you forgive that person, but what are the chances that they're still going to do it again? Because that kind of stuff, it's, you know, if the person does it, they do it. Somebody who's not comfortable with themselves.

They haven't grown.

They lie because they're insecure.

Yes, exactly.

And they think that other people won't lie like them if they're truthful.

And so they lie because they are trying to cover up a character

flaw typically how they view themselves I had a guy used to work for me I

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