Can I Be In Love Without Being In Lust?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2025

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

This week on U Up?, a listener asks whether a relationship can survive without sexual chemistry when her otherwise perfect boyfriend just isn’t into sex. Jared and Jordana also debate a Red Flag or Deal Breaker: is it a turnoff if your boyfriend uses prepaid Visa gift cards to buy an engagement ring? Plus, a cringeworthy dating moment when a Bumble match splits the bill, then retracts an extra tip to save $12. From low sex drive to money-related red flags, J&J break it all down with humor and real talk! Watch here on YouTube! Tune in for relatable dating advice and if in NYC, come to the live show!👉 ⁠https://betches.co/uuplive⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The autopilot order.
0:01.7	Now, informal.
0:02.9	The strong urge felt at the ordering kiosk or drive-through
0:05.6	that takes over the entire body and mind
0:07.8	and results in a person ordering a Big Mac without even having to think.
0:11.5	Related phrases.
0:12.5	Looks like I've ordered a Big Mac again.
0:14.6	The Autopilot Order at McDonald's.
0:17.7	Surf from 11am, subject to availability.
0:22.8	Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
0:26.6	And I am Jared Fried. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? What's going on? How you feeling?
0:34.4	What's happening? I'm good. I feel, I feel like I'm in the wild,
0:38.0	wild west right now. If you're watching on YouTube. The new hat is here. The new hat. Not the new
0:42.6	hat. The old hat. Yeah, you're getting your money's worth. Howdy. You're getting your
0:45.9	money's worth. That's right. Listen, I got to wear it. Have you worn it since you got it? I've worn it a few times. Okay. It's for, you know, today was such a beautiful day. I'm also, you know, behind the scenes, let you behind the curtain.
0:57.5	I'm taping some video, some content.
1:00.4	So I was like, I got to wear the hat.
1:01.9	Let me just wear it in.
1:03.1	And then, like, I'm not going to, like, not wear it.
1:04.8	It was met with a lot of hostility when I walked into the Betcher's office. I'm not going to lie to you. It was, uh, everyone's just jealous.
1:11.7	It was, I don't know what it is. Show them the inner, there's a, there's a, we've gone over
1:17.0	the hat, haven't we? I don't know if you've worn. I said some people have children. I brand hats.
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