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U Up?

Can I Ask My Partner To Pay More If They Make More? Ft. Mike Johnson

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 17 February 2021

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

J&J begin the week with a conversation about properly loading the dishwasher (this doesn’t need to be so difficult!) and finding a good date spot in a pandemic. Then they react to a post from someone who applied to the Bachelor while in a relationship. What does it say about your relationship if you daydream about being on The Bachelor when you’re already with someone else? The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a listener who suddenly realized that she’s been farting on every sex partner she’s ever slept over with. They read an email from another listener whose boyfriend started making more money but refuses to take on some of the extra household costs. Is it a sign of things to come if your partner insists on splitting everything fifty-fifty? Then they’re joined by Mike Johnson of The Bachelorette and the Talking It Out podcast. They talk about whether it hurts more to end a relationship with someone who did all the right things or someone who did you wrong. Plus, they discuss how to keep a relationship out of the public eye. Is there a difference between being private and secret? Finally, they play a game of Red Flag or Deal Breaker with Mike, leading to a debate about how to make a proper excuse when you have a bathroom emergency on a first date. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

hello and welcome to the u.a. podcast. I'm Jordana abraham and I am Jared freed. It is so

0:09.4

good to be back here with you, Jordana virtually. How are you? What's going on? How's New York

0:14.4

City? Are you getting out of the house at all? Tell me about your life. New York City is fine.

0:21.7

They're about to open indoor dining in the city. That's a huge deal. That's a big deal. Yeah. I mean,

0:31.2

before that, there has been pretty much absolutely nothing to do. So I mean, I know it's not like

0:38.7

the safest. But I do think the cases are declining due to these vaccines, which is great. So I'm hoping

0:47.1

that this is positive sign. Listen, I think I'm with you and I also think you just want to listen.

0:55.2

Everyone has their own opinion on when these things should happen and how to progress. But

0:59.4

I think the nice thing is that people can make their make choices for themselves and be respectful.

1:04.4

That's the only thing we're looking for. With indoor dining, listen, I've been to places where I

1:09.8

like look at it and I go, not going to be for me. That's okay. Yeah. Some places are like big

1:17.3

restaurants really spread out. Everyone makes their can make their own decision. I mean, I think

1:22.5

it's very positive sign that it's now like legal again. Yeah. And especially when I was in New York,

1:30.0

just like I've mentioned this a hundred times and people are probably sick of me saying it. But

1:33.4

just the ability to go have a cup of coffee, get out of your apartment, sit alone in the corner

1:39.6

of a coffee place, not be near people. That's a mentally good thing for you. Right? Right.

1:48.0

Yeah. I think anything that will allow you to just leave your apartment and get out for a little

1:55.5

it's also just like it's so cold. Anything that you can do, it's good for your mental health. I

2:00.5

just feel like it's like necessary. I am starting fights because I'm bored. Just trying to

2:08.6

like say things up a little bit. I'm like, I'm like, this thing, they're like, get the fuck out

2:14.7

of here. Cold take a walk. Yeah. Basically, I'm like, and did you see how you loaded the dishwasher?

2:20.8

Like, who is the blades on top? Plates on top is crazy. Plates on top is insane. Right? He's

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