Good evening gorgeous. How are you doing this evening? I hope that you had a wonderful day. Thank you for joining me today on this

podcast. My name is Dr. Michelle and today we have some butterfly male. One of our

butterflies asked, dear Dr. Michelle, my lack of positivity is preventing me from being

soft. I find that I want to be a feminine woman, but I feel quite sour on the inside. I want to be nicer and sweeter, but I just don't know where to begin.

So let's go ahead and talk about this. The first thing I invite you to do in terms of changing your life is changing your routine.

I invite you to start waking up early. This gives you a positive charge, it gives you

confidence when you're able to wake up before everyone else. So I would suggest that you

aim to wake up at 4 a.m. or 5 a.m. You will have a completely

different experience with your day when you're up before the rest of the world. You have the time and the clarity without the distractions,

without the phone calls and the emails and everything that the world has to offer, you

get to be up in peace and stillness and this is necessary for everything that you are

going to create in this life. When you wake up it's important that you make the decision that you are happy and that the day is great.

Don't wake up and just wait to see how you feel.

You need to put yourself into that vibration on your own. You are responsible

for your own emotions and your own thoughts. Do not allow outer circumstances to dictate that for you.

Say an affirmation if you need to.

I am happy and blessed and today it will be wonderful.

Affirmations are great because as you say them,

your mind is storing all of this information and

eventually will get you there. So when you wake up you say that I am happy and

blessed today will be wonderful and with enough repetition your

subconscious mind will get you to believe it. I know this is something that I

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