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The Intentional Parents Podcast

Bullies, mean girls, and creating an environment of safety, not judgment

The Intentional Parents Podcast

Intentional

Biblical, Help, Fatherhood, Kids & Family, Child, Christian, Children, Parents, Parenting, Kids, Leadership, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Mothers, Bible

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 23 August 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Mean girls are not just in the movies. Today, Diane and Elizabeth talk about bullies, in particular mean girls. Our culture tolerates a level of speech towards one another that we have never seen before, especially online. It's everywhere, from prominent leaders to our families and children. The culture our children are navigating through is tricky, and the method of killing them with kindness doesn't always work. Diane and Elizabeth share some wisdom about what to do if your daughter is facing a mean girl. What does it look like to follow Christ and also draw boundaries? How do we teach our daughters to hold space for empathy so they can see that there is a story behind each mean girl? And finally, how can we teach our daughters to forgive the mean girl or bully even if repairing the relationship isn't possible? We hope this conversation today will help you navigate the problematic relationships that your daughters will encounter at some point. Enjoy!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Intentional Parents Podcast. Intentional exists to help parents in their

0:18.6

God-given task to raise passionate Jesus followers. We exist to bring hope, help, and healing

0:24.5

to families. Each week we will talk about anything from parenting, marriage, lifestyle,

0:29.9

and what it looks like to follow Jesus in our time. Intentional is made up of

0:34.2

Phil and Diane Comer and Brooke and Elizabeth Moser. I am Brooke and the funny thing is we are all

0:39.4

family. Elizabeth is Phil and Diane's daughter so we're a family figuring this thing out together.

0:45.4

We hope this podcast feels like you're sitting with us in our home talking about how to do this

0:50.2

thing called lives together. Elizabeth and I are your host. Let's get into this week's podcast.

1:02.9

Welcome back to the Intentional Parents Podcast. It is mom and I today.

1:08.8

We are sitting. This is a new era, guys. I have my two youngest in your bedroom, mom,

1:15.8

playing in hopes that maybe they're going to stay there the whole time we record this. Both Brooke

1:21.1

and dad are out of town. We'll see how this goes. If you hear little footsteps coming in,

1:26.3

then it's not working so well, but parents are really littles. They do get older at some

1:32.7

moment and they play for like long stretches. It's amazing. And get along. It's amazing.

1:39.4

For the most part, there's still lots of moments. But we're going to talk today and this will

1:45.1

be funny because I just told the girls, if you guys get in an argument, you need to work it out

1:49.3

yourselves because I'm not available. But mom and I have just been talking about this whole idea

1:55.9

of mean girls. And I think we can all know exactly what that means when you hear that. I mean,

2:03.0

there's a whole movie on it that is absolutely hilarious, but so incredibly true.

2:08.7

That especially young girls in the beginning of adolescence, all the way through adolescence,

2:14.3

sometimes well beyond adolescence. We are always going to be exposed to girls that are just hard

2:23.4

and who seem to want to make your daughter's life harder. And sometimes it's subtle.

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