The Intentional Parents Podcast

This week, Brook sits down once again with author, professor, theologian, lay pastor, and podcaster A.J. Swoboda to talk about the importance of having a teachable spirit in today’s world. Centered around his latest book, A Teachable Spirit, this episode invites listeners to see teachability not just as a personality trait, but as a deeply spiritual discipline. We begin by naming a sobering truth: “We have become a culture that demands repentance but shames people who actually do it.” In response, A.J. points us to a better way — the way of Jesus — urging us to become teachable people rooted in humility and grace. Starting with the definition of a teachable spirit, we explore the role of humility, the difference between teachability and impressionability, how we remain teachable in marriage and parenting, the value of repair with our kids, and the gift of childlike faith — pointing out the countercultural idea that “things are better when kids are in the room.” A.J. also previews the groups in his book that we must learn how to learn from: experts, the dead, strangers, culture, children, and more — even when it's uncomfortable for us as Christians. Ultimately, we land on the “why” behind it all: why is this posture essential to the mission of the Church? A.J. ends with a moving picture of extreme humility and teachability — carried all the way to our last dying breath. Our conversation is full of humor, vulnerability, depth, insight, and, of course, humility. If you’re longing to grow — or simply wondering what it means to become a more teachable person — don’t miss this one. A.J. Swoboda: A Teachable Spirit, Subversive Sabbath Other Books,Website,Slow Theology Podcast,Newsletter Instagram Scripture Mentioned: 2 Peter 3:16, Daniel 1, Genesis 2:20-24, Matthew 19:13-15, Luke 6, John 7 + Matthew 16 Motherhood Retreat 2025 Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 7 May 2025

Do you ever find yourself at a loss when it comes to disciplining your children as they move beyond the toddler years? Do you wish you could instantly curb the pushback, mood swings, and moments of disrespect? This week, we discuss our Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting resource, which reframes how we respond to our children’s behaviors by emphasizing both correction and connection. After all, God has hard-wired us all for connection — and this should dictate how we relate to our kids, no matter the circumstances. Looking to Jesus as the model for demonstrating both kindness and firmness, we emphasize not only the importance of each, but also the order in which we respond to outbursts or misbehavior. We explore the two extremes we often see in parenting: 1) the authoritarian, emotionless “because I said so” style focused solely on squashing the behavior and 2) the overemphasis on emotional validation without any sense of firm boundaries or consequences. So how do we strike that balance? Tune in to find out! Scripture Mentioned: Romans 11:22, Romans 2:4, Proverbs 3:11-12, Proverbs 22:6, John 1:14, Psalm 94:19, Proverbs 15:1 + 4, Proverbs 29:17 + Matthew 11:28 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting Resource Forest Home Family Camp: Week 6 (All four of us are speaking!) Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 30 April 2025

This week, Brook sits down with actor, author, and producer Kirk Cameron for a powerful conversation about faith, marriage, and what it means to live as a man of God. While many remember Kirk from his prominent roles in the Growing Pains TV series and the Left Behind films, his story goes far beyond the screen. He shares how a shift from atheism to Christianity as a teenager altered the trajectory of his life, leading him to become a devoted husband, father of six, and now a grandfather. We talk about Kirk’s new kids’ show, Iggy and Mr. Kirk, streaming on BRAVE+, created to offer low-stimulation, character-focused content in a world full of noise. Kirk also shares rich wisdom on marriage, describing it as “a school you enroll in to learn how to die to yourself.” He challenges the cultural narrative that marriage is about happiness, reframing it as a path to holiness and covenantal love. Kirk dropped this memorable alliteration when it comes to marriage: “If you focus on rights, you’ll promote rebellion. But if you focus on responsibilities, you create the conditions for revival.” The episode closes with a meaningful reflection on biblical manhood — how to model it for our sons, even if we didn’t have it modeled for us. Kirk points to meekness as a defining trait: strength and power, willingly submitted to the authority of God. This episode is packed with truth, encouragement, and clarity for anyone striving to live and lead with purpose. Don’t miss it! Kirk Cameron Resources: Iggy and Mr. Kirk, BRAVE+ Streaming Platform + Website Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 16 April 2025

This week, we explore procedural memory — the unconscious, long-term memory that drives us to perform actions automatically. Shaped by childhood experiences and behaviors modeled by our parents, procedural memory often feels like running on autopilot or slipping into default mode, especially in how we respond under pressure. It’s that reflexive reaction, internal or external, that surfaces when we’re provoked — sometimes leading to an action you once promised yourself you’d never repeat, perhaps because it’s something you watched your parents do. Once we define the concept, we unpack how to break harmful procedural memory patterns and how, in turn, we can form healthier reflexive habits. While acknowledging our shortcomings and the reality that we will inevitably pass down some forms of negative behavior to our children, we quickly reach a place of incredible hope. We examine the process of transformation and redemption outlined in Scripture, drawing from the hopeful call in Romans 12:1-2 to offer ourselves as living sacrifices and be transformed by the renewing of our minds. By sharing personal stories of generational healing and redemption within our own family, we testify to the ways God has reshaped our hearts and minds, unveiling His power, patience, and grace in the process. This episode is packed with practical tips, scriptural truths, raw vulnerability, and radical hope. Prayers to Pray:“God, help us unlearn what hurt us and relearn what heals us.”“Help us live in ways that our bodies, our families and our children will remember as love.” Scripture Mentioned: Romans 12:1-2, Hebrews 5:14, 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 1:17, Romans 5:8, Psalm 118:27, 1 Corinthians 11:1, Philippians 4:9, Matthew 12:34, Romans 7:15-20, 1 John 3:19-20, Romans 8:1, Romans 8:6, Genesis 50:15-21, Romans 5:10,  Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 9 April 2025

This week, Elizabeth and Diane make an exciting announcement: The Intentional Motherhood Retreat is BACK for 2025 — this time, in Portland, Oregon from October 23-25! They discuss what the retreat is all about, why you should come, and what to expect if you haven’t been before. As retreat speakers and hosts, Elizabeth and Diane reflect on the deep connections, vulnerability, and transformation experienced in past years — building anticipation for what’s to come in 2025. This retreat is for women who desire to be mothers some day, all the way to grandmothers, and everyone in between — mothers of babies, toddlers, young children, teenagers, and adult children. This intergenerational gathering is a chance for all ages and stages of mothers to learn from one another, encourage each other, and simply be together. Because motherhood isn’t meant to be done alone. The late Dallas Willard said “Spiritual formation…can’t be a private thing… It is a matter of whole-life transformation. You need to seek out others in your community who are pursuing the renovation of the heart.” And that is exactly what we are going to do together. So come join us October 23rd through 25th for the Intentional Motherhood Retreat in Portland. We can’t wait to see you! Scripture Mentioned: Colossians 2:2-3 Motherhood Retreat 2025: More Info + Purchase Tickets Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 2 April 2025

This week, we’re diving into the topic of emotional intelligence — the ability to recognize, understand, and manage emotions in both ourselves and those around us. Developing emotional intelligence helps us navigate life with maturity and stability, while also equipping us to guide our children in naming and managing their emotions with confidence and care. At its core, emotional intelligence is built on four key components: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. These elements work together to shape how we understand ourselves, navigate our emotions, and connect with others. In this episode, we explore each of these components, acknowledging that some may come more naturally than others. We also take a closer look at generational differences in emotional intelligence and how we can break unhealthy patterns to cultivate emotional well-being for both ourselves and our kids. Join us for a candid and thought-provoking conversation filled with wisdom, reflection, encouragement, and scripture! Book Mentioned: Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Jean Greaves, Travis Bradberry and Patrick M. Lencioni Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 7:10, Ephesians 4:26, Genesis 4:6, Ephesians 4:25-32, Jonah 4, Psalm 4:4, Proverbs 16:32, Proverbs 17:22, Psalm 32:3-5, Psalm 19:11, Psalm 19:14, Philippians 2:3-4, Galatians 4:19 + Romans 13:8-10 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2025

This week, the entire Intentional team sits down to respond to your questions, covering a range of topics, including emotional availability, attachment, overstimulation with kids, physical intimacy in marriage, and navigating emotional pain with our children. We discuss the difficult task of staying emotionally present with toddlers while tending to household responsibilities. Elizabeth unpacks common misconceptions about attachment, explaining that secure attachment isn’t about being constantly available but is instead about a continued pattern of relating and knowing how to repair when we inevitably fall short. We delve into the reality of overstimulation and feeling “touched out” with kids — and how that may dissuade us from desiring physical intimacy with our spouse. We discuss practical ways to navigate this challenge, including clear communication and strategies for regulating your nervous system. We also acknowledge that while this season of parenting young children is emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually demanding, it also strengthens our resilience, helping us build tolerance for life’s everyday stresses. Finally, we tackle the question “Can we shield our children from emotional pain?” Instead of striving to protect them from every hardship, we discuss the importance of naming and acknowledging their pain, equipping them with tools to process their emotions, and ultimately pointing them to their heavenly Father as their true source of comfort and strength. Tune in for an honest, encouraging conversation about the complexities of parenting — and the grace we need to navigate it all. Scripture Mentioned: Luke 8:1-3, Luke 9:1-2, Psalm 32:7, Genesis 50:20, Genesis 39:21, Romans 8 + Psalm 91 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 19 March 2025

In this episode, the whole Intentional team comes together to unpack five essential practices for maintaining calm and regulation as parents — even in the midst of chaos. We explore how our response to our children must be rooted in humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and contentment. We discuss the fleshly desire to respond to heightened emotions and dysregulation in our kids by matching their intensity — and how that never works out well in the long run. Instead, we look to Jesus’ words in the Sermon on the Mount, where meekness is not weakness but strength under control, and ultimately, how “humility is the beginning of usability.” This scripture-rich conversation offers both a framework for responding when your child acts out and a way to proactively cultivate peace in your home. It’s a reminder that none of us parent perfectly — but by continually reorienting ourselves toward the words and ways of Jesus, we can navigate even the most intense moments with grace. Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 5:5, Romans 7:15-20, Proverbs 15:1+4, Ephesians 4:2, Matthew 11:28-30, Numbers 12:3, 1 Peter 5:5, Proverbs 24:16-18, John 8, 2 Peter 3:9, James 5:7, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 + Matthew 18:21-22 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 12 March 2025

This week, we welcomed Sally Lemos, MS, LPC back on the show for a continued conversation around generational trauma, this time focused on the path to healing. Drawing from her own history of significant childhood trauma, Sally walked us through what it can look like to find healing and restoration, offering a raw account of her transition from denial and blame to naming and claiming. Sally’s healing process didn’t involve a clean, step-by-step checklist, but rather an openness to the One who saves — the One who provided resources and people to sit with her in the pain. We delve into the crucial aspects of healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when professional intervention is necessary and the need to avoid spiritual bypassing. Sally stresses that genuine healing demands personal transformation before one can effectively support others, and that it is a lifelong process. Together, we looked to heaven as the ultimate source of comfort, knowing that keeping an eternal perspective will give us strength in the midst of present struggles. Our conversation with Sally was raw, vulnerable and filled with hope — as again and again, we returned to the comforting reality: “But God.” NOTE: Please be advised the topics discussed in this show may not be suitable for younger audiences; please use your discretion when watching or listening. Listen to Part 1: “Generational Trauma, Wounded Parts and How Trauma is Passed Down (Interview with Sally Lemos, MS, LPC)” Sally Lamos, MS, LPC: New Bloom Therapy, Instagram Books Mentioned: “Heaven” and “Heaven for Kids” by Randy Alcorn Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 1:5, Matthew 3:17, Philippians 4:4-7 + Exodus 20:3-6 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 26 February 2025

Have you ever felt stuck in your decisions, as if changing your mind would mean admitting defeat? This week, we’re talking about the beauty and bravery of pivoting, whether it’s within your marriage, the way you parent your children, or other areas of life. We unpack the reasons we may have trouble granting ourselves permission to change, whether that’s worry, fear, pride, ignorance, identity, or even dynamics within our family of origin. Sometimes, the ideals we held before marriage or parenthood no longer fit the reality of our lives. Maybe your spouse or kids don’t match the expectations you once had — or maybe you have changed. And that’s okay! A willingness to adjust requires humility and a deep dependence on God, acknowledging that we are “poor in spirit” (Matthew 5:3) and are in need of His guidance to discern what needs to shift. In this episode, we explore practical ways to zoom out, reflect, and ask God, “Is this actually working?” We discuss tools like scripture, prayer, and the wisdom of community to navigate these changes. Plus, we share our own stories of moments, both big and small, where we’ve had to change course — and how those shifts brought unexpected peace and growth. If you’ve been waiting for permission to pivot, this is it. Join us for an encouraging, hope-filled conversation about embracing change with grace and courage. Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 16:9, Genesis 18:22-33, Acts 27 + 28, Matthew 5-7, John 8:29, Daniel 1:8-10 + Ephesians 5:21-33 Book Mentioned: “Searching for and Maintaining Peace: A Small Treatise on Peace of Heart” by Jacques Philippe Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 19 February 2025

This week, we welcomed author, speaker, fellow podcaster, and overall inspiring, vibrant and magnetic human Annie F. Downs to the show. First, we highlighted the children’s book Annie co-wrote with her sister, ”Where Did TJ Go?”, which helps kids navigate grief and loss. The story was born from personal tragedy. After her sister’s family lost a baby, Annie wrote it for her nephew, Sam, to help him understand where his baby brother, TJ, had gone. What began as a heartfelt story for one child became a beautiful illustrated book that offers comfort to many. Annie wrote the book her family needed at the time but couldn’t find — a visual story that kids can connect to, pointing them to heaven, while acknowledging the deep sorrow they feel here on earth. Our conversation was hopeful yet honest, embracing the tension of holding both joy and suffering at once. We found comfort in the truth that “there is good news even in sad stories.” We also discussed singleness in the church, a topic Annie is passionate about through her work in the Single Purpose League as well as within her own personal life. She instilled wisdom on ways to bridge the gap between single people and married couples within the church, emphasizing the pressing need for increased communication across the board. While acknowledging the church’s shortcomings in embracing and empowering single people, Annie continually returns to grace. It was an absolute joy to have Annie F. Downs on the show — and we have a feeling this won’t be our last conversation! Materials + Resources Mentioned:Where Did TJ Go? (Released February 18, 2025)Pastoring Singles: A Free Resource for Church LeadershipSingle Purpose League Annie F. Downs: Website, That Sounds Fun Podcast, Books, Instagram Scripture Mentioned: Romans 5:3-5, 1 Peter 1:6, Hebrews 11:6 + Hebrews 11:1 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 12 February 2025

This week on the podcast, all four of us (Brook, Elizabeth, Phil and Diane) sat down to respond to some questions centered on avoiding bitterness in your marriage while dealing with sickness and the unique challenges of parenting neurodiverse children alongside neurotypical children. We discussed the reality of living out the marriage vow, “in sickness and in health,” and how it requires a deep loyalty to one another, a shared sense of suffering and oneness, and a desperate dependence on God. We addressed how to avoid bitterness towards your spouse suffering from sickness, which demands honesty about the situation, acceptance that this is your reality, and understanding that faith is not a “fix-it” system. We also responded to two related questions about parenting children with neurodiversity — 1) How do you parent both neurodiverse and neurotypical children in a way that is God-honoring and full of compassion, grace and truth towards each individual child and their needs? And 2) How do you work through disagreements and differences with your spouse in how you parent neurodiverse children? Drawing from our own experiences happening in real time, we talked about our unrelenting reliance on God, our larger family system, our community, and each other — as well as many other helpful strategies, such as getting on the same page AND staying on the same page. This episode is packed with scripture references, personal examples, and lots of light and hope — even amidst some heavy, complex questions. Poem by Jane Kenyon: Otherwise “The cross means the acceptance of limitation on desire.” — Dallas Willard Scripture Mentioned:Hebrews 12:15, Matthew 5:3, Genesis 2:24, Lamentations 3:1, Romans 12:15, Romans 8:22, and Philippians 2 Marriage Retreat: SOLD OUT Join Our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow Us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @emosser FREE Text Message Daily Devotional  Merch Grab a Copy of Our Book:Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Blog The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 5 February 2025

This week on the podcast, we welcomed back Ruth Chou Simons — author, artist, podcaster, and mom of six(!) boys — for an inspiring conversation about nurturing relationships with our kids. Ruth shared her wisdom on fighting for connection, especially during the teenage years, emphasizing the importance of leading with vulnerability. We explored the idea of viewing parenting as a journey rather than a destination, the importance of feeling empowered in our role as parents, the art of consistently pursuing our kids at every stage, and so much more. We also discussed Ruth’s beautiful new children’s book, Home Is Right Where You Are, inspired by Psalm 23. Ruth shared how a personal, unexpected challenge solidified the very message of her book — that God, as our Shepherd, calls us to abide in Him. This truth has transformed how she entrusts her kids to His care, realizing that home isn’t a place but a posture of resting in God’s presence. Ruth’s Books: Previous Podcast with Ruth Chou Simons Ruth’s Podcast with her son’s story:The Ruth Chou Simons Podcast Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube GOT QUESTIONS? Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 29 January 2025

In this episode, we take a heartfelt and insightful dive into the unique challenges and profound joys of parenting neurodivergent children. We acknowledge the emotional, spiritual, and practical complexities that come with raising children who experience the world differently, while also embracing the beauty and growth that can emerge from these experiences. Throughout our discussion, we explore how faith plays a vital role in navigating the uncertainties and trials that parents often face, offering a source of strength and hope amid moments of grief and self-doubt.Parenting children with special needs demands an extraordinary level of humility, adaptability, and grace. It requires a willingness to learn, unlearn, and continuously evolve as both a caregiver and an advocate. In this episode, we address some deeply personal and thought-provoking questions from our listeners—questions about how to cultivate a spirit of gratitude even in the midst of struggle, how to deepen trust in God during challenging times, and how to effectively communicate with family, friends, and the broader community to foster understanding and support. Whether you are a parent, a loved one, or simply someone looking to better understand the experiences of neurodivergent families, we invite you to join us in this enriching conversation. Enjoy! Birdies Story  Tim Keller Book  Scripture Mentioned:Romans (I will boast in my weakness…)Joshua 1Psalm 26 Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube GOT [email protected] Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 22 January 2025

Today on the show, Brook+Elizabeth and Phil+Diane answer your marriage-related questions, offering practical strategies and heartfelt wisdom for navigating the challenges and celebrations of married life. They tackle everything from difficult in-law dynamics and moments of overstimulation to prioritizing your spouse during the busiest or most exhausting seasons. With a focus on communication, respect, and prayer, this discussion is packed with advice, encouragement, laughter, and essential tools to help you build a stronger, more resilient relationship. Don’t miss it! Scripture Mentioned:1 Peter 3Psalm 34 Marriage Retreat - SOLD OUT Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 15 January 2025

We wholeheartedly welcome back Sally Lemos, MS, LPC, to our show today to talk about trauma as it relates to families through generations. In this episode, we want to lay a foundation and start at the beginning by defining what trauma and abuse are and how they can show up in different ways in us, in our families, and how it’s passed down to future generations. Sally shares with us through the wisdom of her professional lens and her lived experience to teach us some tools to name the trauma, be with the wounded parts, and sit with our healer. Please be advised the topic of today's show may not be suitable for younger audiences; please use your discretion when watching or listening. Enjoy! Scripture Mentioned:Exodus 20Romans 7 Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 8 January 2025

Merry Christmas! Welcome to our special Christmas episode! Today, Brook and Elizabeth, along with Phil and Diane, dive into the challenges of navigating interpersonal relationships, especially in a culture where it’s often easier—and even socially accepted—to cancel those who feel inconvenient. Together, they share eight essential principles for handling difficult relationships and explore the better, more compassionate way that Jesus teaches. Along the way, they open up about their own personal experiences with relational tension, offering honest and heartfelt stories that bring these lessons to life. We’re so glad you’re here! Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series

Transcribed - Published: 24 December 2024

In this episode, Brook+Elizabeth, and Phil+Diane tackle three insightful questions about navigatingrelationships and faith. They explore how to foster deeper connections with family members whostruggle with vulnerability by modeling openness, inviting honest conversations, and listeningwithout judgment. They also share how they have learned to support self-critical loved ones through the power of specific encouragement and patience while speaking the truth in love.Lastly, they share thoughts about responding to loved ones who have drifted from faithwith prayer and compassion. Enjoy! Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 18 December 2024

On the show today, Brook and Elizabeth and Phil and Diane talk about complaining. They unpack how complaining often masks deeper issues like grief, unmet expectations, or a lack of acceptance.True lament invites God into our pain, helping us process grief without getting stuck, whilegodliness with contentment reorients our perspective. By repenting of entitlement, embracingsuffering as part of our calling, and teaching others, including our children, to lament with God,we grow in faith and resilience. Enjoy! Scripture mentioned:Philippians 21 Timothy 6v6Phillippians 4Genesis 6v6Psalm 119Romans 8Job Jerry Sittser’s books: Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2024

Conflict, conflict, conflict! We all have it, none of us really want it, and we usually don’t handle it well. What are we to do with the complexities of relational tension and dynamics in our closest relationship? What are some tried and true strategies that are effective now, and how do we heal the emotional wounds that come from conflict? What does the Bible say about this pivotal dynamic in our homes? Listen as Brook, Elizabeth, Phil, and Diane discuss this topic and share their hearts and failures. Enjoy!  Year End Match…Give Here! Marriage Retreat Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 3 December 2024

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! On today’s show, Brook, Elizabeth, Phil, and Diane sit down to respond to some great questions you all sent in. They open with an important question: is cooking a turkey necessary at Thanksgiving? They also cover some questions like how to find a spiritual mentor, how to keep fighting for your spouse when your spouse is struggling with an addiction, and how to focus on our children's flaws as well as their strengths. We hope you have a great Thanksgiving, Enjoy! Scriptures Mentioned:Romans 15v1Galatians 6v5Galatians 5v16Philippians 4v13James 4v71 Peter 3Hebrews 12v1-3Philippians 2 Marriage Retreat Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 27 November 2024

On today’s show, we are so pleased to welcome Glenn Packiam. Glenn is a Pastor, author, podcast host, husband, and father of four. We are excited for you to get to know Glenn and the work he has been up to, not only as an author with the book he co-wrote with his wife, Holly but also to learn what God has been teaching him about fatherhood and his relationship with Jesus. Join us in this deep and encouraging conversation as we talk about what it means to have an Intentional year, to start new habits instead of New Year’s resolutions, discipling your kids with the heart of connection first, and how to find pathways to your child’s heart. Enjoy! The Resilient Pastor Podcast  Learn About Glenn Marriage Retreat Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 20 November 2024

Join us today as Brook, Phil, and Diane discuss their best daily habits. Spoiler alert: it’s reading their Bibles each day. Some stories and reflections are shared today about how God has transformed each of them over the years by reading the scriptures daily. Reading the Bible is not meant to be legalistic; God’s heart is an invitation, wanting to bless, meet, and help you. To keep it simple, they break it down into five different ways to read the scriptures. Enjoy! 5 different ways to read the scriptures:*First, find a place you like to be in where you won't be interrupted. You may have to wake up earlier for this, so don’t forget your journal. 1) Read Prayerfully 2) Read Carefully3) Read Humbly4) Read Expectantly 5) Read Joyfully Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video Here!  Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 13 November 2024

Today is all about marriage. Join Brook and Elizabeth as they share from a place of humble transparency how God has taught them to love one another. Brook and Elizabeth share crucial elements that have shifted their relationship, like care before criticism, being aware of the little foxes, and finding ways to encourage one another. They also discuss four things to try in your marriage to bring more care and life to your relationship. You are not alone if you find marriage hard, but it is worth the fight. Enjoy! 4 things to try:1) Beware of the little foxes2) Believe in your spouse’s goodwill3) Find what you can encourage4) Breath prayers Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video Here!  Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 6 November 2024

Today, we talk all about time! We cover different topics like letting our dreams die. What does that process look like? How do we accept the pain of life effectively and fruitfully? What do we do in the waiting when one season has not yet come but one season has already passed? What’s the right time to let something painful go? When is it time to conquer the next mountain? We cover many questions like this and even more. Enjoy! 4 Movements to helpA time of waiting A time to turn A time to set out A time to take possession  Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video to: [email protected] Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 30 October 2024

We welcome Jay Kim as our guest on the show today! Jay is a pastor, author, speaker, husband, and father. Jay has dedicated so much of his work to the topic of examination in the areas of technology, Christianity, and family. This delightful conversation dives into the Ignatian practices and how we can incorporate them into our daily lives, especially with our children. There are genuine moments and examples in this conversation that are refreshingly humble and helpful as Jay shares his passion for the truth that we were made for face-to-face, embodied experiences and points out how that is precisely how God meets us through Jesus. Enjoy! 5 movements to help you slow down with God1) Invite God to make you aware of His presence2) Gratitude- thank Him for one thing3) Reflect on your day and offer one hard thing to Him4) Confess and repent from one thing that day5) Offer one thing you need help with tomorrow Marriage Retreat Submit 1 min Video Here!  Where to find Jay Kim:Books:Analog Church Analog Christian Listen Listen Speak Learn More about JayJay ThinksWestgate church in Silicon Valley Jay’s PodcastThe Digital Examen Podcast Join our Legacy Builders Watch on YouTube Follow us on Instagram: @intentional_parents @brook_mosser @Emosser FREE TEXT Message Daily Devotional  MERCH: Gear for the journey  Grab a copy of our book: Raising Passionate Jesus Followers (Now available in audiobook!) Website: Blogs  The Intentional Film Series 

Transcribed - Published: 23 October 2024

Today, we’re joined by Darren Whitehead to discuss his book, The Digital Fast. He highlights the crucial role of community in helping us break free from excessive phone use and invites us on a 40-day journey toward less digital noise and more spiritual peace. The average person spends 7 to 9 hours a day on their phone, and while we know it’s not a healthy habit, changing it can feel incredibly challenging—especially when we try to do it alone. In this conversation, we’ll explore the four key movements of the digital fast and how to rediscover joy and balance. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 16 October 2024

You are in for a special treat; we did our first-ever live Q+R recording from the Motherhood retreat! We had hundreds of women send in questions from the weekend that touch on many deep topics like giving care before criticism, how to encourage your husband, is anything off-limits when you are lamenting with God, how to cut the deadly loop of envy, how to offer help to your friends in a way they can say yes and so much more. We hope you join us today for a tiny taste of our 2024 Intentional Motherhood retreat. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 9 October 2024

You are in for a special treat; we did our first-ever live Q+R recording from the Motherhood retreat! We had hundreds of women send in questions from the weekend that touch on many deep topics like giving care before criticism, how to encourage your husband, is anything off-limits when you are lamenting with God, how to cut the deadly loop of envy, how to offer help to your friends in a way they can say yes and so much more. We hope you join us today for a tiny taste of our 2024 Intentional Motherhood retreat. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 9 October 2024

Get ready to take some notes with this conversation! We have Justin Whitmel Earley on the show today. Justin is a full-time lawyer, writer, speaker, husband, and father to four boys. Justin’s books, especially Habits of the Household, center around habit formation, how our habits affect our family and personal well-being, and the idea that things can change when we bring those habits into the light of the gospel. Join our conversation as we talk about tickle blessings, bedtime liturgy, new habit-forming tips, and how reconciliation is a gift God gives us, and we give to each other. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 2 October 2024

We have a guest on our show today who is going to help you lower your defenses when it comes to the topic of technology use while at the same time giving you tools and encouragement to build a healthy relationship with it. We are so pleased to have Joey Odom on the show. This conversation is rich, deep, intelligent, and packed with practical help. Get ready to laugh at some great stories, connect with relatable examples, and encourage you to take a step closer to a healthy relationship with technology for yourself and your kids.

Transcribed - Published: 25 September 2024

On today’s show, Brook + Elizabeth and Phil + Diane respond to three questions that were sent in. This episode may be helpful to you if you have kids that express their emotions in big ways, if you want to understand your parent’s culture of Christianity to understand how it affected your upbringing, and if you have a neurodivergent child or grandchild and you want to cultivate hope and learn ways to support your child, your spouse and your grown kids. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 11 September 2024

What does it look like to not only follow Jesus but also share Jesus in our time? We welcome the one and only Josh White back to the podcast today. Josh White is the pastor at Door of Hope in Portland, Oregon. He’s also an author, speaker, and musician. Join us for this deep and helpful conversation as Josh speaks the truth in love. We explore how sharing our faith is an excellent medium for sanctification and how our faith is communal, confessional, and personal. We also sit in the beautiful truth of grace and the depth of Jesus’ love for us. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 4 September 2024

Is it our responsibility to do it all? Is there a better way? We have ideals, sometimes we feel like it’s all up to us, other times we have fears that show up in our thoughts and responses and we don’t always see our limitations, especially with the perspective that they can be a gift to us. Join us today as we explore these 5 questions to ask yourself:

Transcribed - Published: 21 August 2024

We are privileged to sit and talk with Jerry and Pat Sittser today. If you don’t know this couple you are in for a treat. They deposit thoughtful and Godly wisdom about marriage and blended families. They share how blended families and marriage are incredible gifts while acknowledging the dynamics are complex. As you will hear from their stories today, they are passionate about serving each other, their grown kids, and their grandchildren. They have learned to ask themselves helpful questions to bring about the most fruit in their lives. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 14 August 2024

It’s Q+R time today! All four of us are here to answer some really great questions. We first dive deep into the question; how do you allow Jesus to change you so you can convert head knowledge into action? We also explore how to keep your relationship with God fun and lastly, we offer a few things we have learned about parenting teens as we experience our own in real time. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 7 August 2024

Today, we welcome back one of our favorite guests and good friend, Greta Eskridge. Greta and her husband have four kids of their own. They are navigating this cultural moment when it comes to protecting their kids from pornography, and understanding how to be proactive with technology. In today’s conversation, Greta shares her wisdom about big issues our kids are facing like sexing, sexploitation, pornography, smartphones, mental health, and how important it is for parents to have regular conversations to be their children’s source of information. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 31 July 2024

Today, we welcome back John Mark Comer to the podcast. Get ready to take notes on many key moments in this conversation that will have you hitting replay! John Mark deposits some helpful thoughts around information versus spiritual formation, stages in our spiritual journey, refreshing views on what parents really need- rest, and how we can practically keep taking one more step in the right direction. If you are feeling weary in parenting you will not want to miss conversation. ENJOY!

Transcribed - Published: 24 July 2024

Today we have Megan Fate Marshmon on the show! If you know, you know! Megan is determined to use her life to spread hope, share truth, and celebrate others. She is finishing her Doctorate of Ministry as she serves as a teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church and the Director of Women’s Ministries at Hume Lake Christian Camps. She also shepherds women at Arbor Road Church in Long Beach, California. We cover grief, loss, anger, sadness and what happens when life blows up and what is life like as a single parent and a widow? You don’t want to miss this episode. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 17 July 2024

Join us today with our special guests and dear friends, the Jauregui’s. They share their family’s story of long-suffering and loss. If you are in a season or have been in a season of suffering and loss we pray today’s conversation blesses your heart as you continue to bring your pain to Jesus. The Jauregi’s teach us a few things they have learned along their journey and we hope you will be encouraged by their hearts and character. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 10 July 2024

The culture of comparison is thick around us. It can be so easy to get caught up in it, even when it’s not as obvious and sneaks up on you. It’s constantly in our faces through social media or media of any kind. Today’s conversation is all about the ways comparison shows up in our lives and how God feels about it. There are 6 major areas that we often get stuck in comparison, but we don't have to stay stuck there. Join us as we name these spots and explore how to healthily combat them. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 26 June 2024

We all are leaving a legacy. The question is, what legacy will you leave behind? Parenting adult children and grandchildren can be tricky because it means you have to let go while still staying present and supportive. Today, Brook and Elizabeth interview Phil and Diane about what it means to be an intentional grandparent. Phil and Diane share a few key elements they have learned through the years. They share how their perspectives have changed as the world has changed and how humility, grace, and love can go a long way. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 19 June 2024

What are the lies you are believing? On today's show, we walk through three common lies that many of us are prone to believe. We explore where lies entered our story as humans and how we can combat them. So often, our enemy carefully crafted the lies we hear for each of us. We hope today's conversation brings hope and healing to a lie you believe. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 12 June 2024

We have an incredible guest on the show today; Andy Crouch joins Brook for an insightful and rich conversation about technology and the family. You may know Andy Crouch from his books The Techwise Family or The Life We Were Looking For. In this episode, we ask Andy questions like, what is the family for? And what worked or didn’t work as Andy and his wife raised their two kids? Brook and Andy also explore the superpowers we are drawn to and rely on and how choosing to be happy now or happy later can either transform us in the way we want to go or the way we don’t want to go. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 5 June 2024

Complaining is not new to the human experience. We all suffer on this side of heaven; some is circumstantial, and some is perspective. Thankfully, the Bible has a lot to share with us about complaining. We hope you will join us for our conversation today, where we talk about perspective in suffering, some sneaky ways the enemy likes to fuel the fire and a few helpful questions to ask amid your grumbling. We also talk about negative development and some essential tools to help you escape a cycle of complaining. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2024

Join us today for a Q+R where we respond to a few of your wonderfully, honest questions. This episode is for you if you are a highly sensitive person or are parenting one, if you struggle to connect with your child or they rub you the wrong way, and if you find yourself in a season of obscurity wondering when your life’s work will begin. We talk about all this and more and get down to the root of these questions to lend hope and encouragement for the season you find yourself in today. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2024

We have the whole crew here today, and we are diving into a great question that was submitted to us: How do you talk to your kids about alcohol in a culture that normalizes it? There are a lot of nuances to this topic and it’s not black and white. We discuss conviction versus preference, parenting out of relationship, and how easy it is to turn to external things rather than God. We hope you join us as we talk about what the Bible says about alcohol and how to live in a way that we can offer our bodies as a living sacrifice to Jesus. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2024

How do we practically train our children to walk with Jesus and do what He did? On today’s show, we talk about a 4- step process that shows us how to bring our children on the journey with us. Just like Jesus involves us in His work, He wants us to do the same with our children. There are different stages in training our children and as you walk through each stage you give them the gift of leadership and equip them for their individual God-given callings. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2024

Our culture is highly individualistic, but is this the way of the Kingdom? When we look at the early church in Acts, there is a marked difference in how they lived beyond themselves. They lived for their community and God. In today’s show, Phil+Diane and Brook+Elizabeth talk about three key elements to living a life counter to our culture and our natural desires. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2024

We probably all have experienced a poor apology or even given one. On today’s show Phil+Diane and Brook+Elizabeth all sit down to discuss what a good apology looks like. It is so much more than the words you say or don’t say, although they are important. They unpack God’s heart for forgiveness and how it goes hand in hand with apologies. They also go through the 5 steps to apologize from the book, When Sorry Isn’t Enough by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas. Enjoy!

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2024