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The Longest Shortest Time

Building a Family After Childhood Trauma

The Longest Shortest Time

Hillary Frank | Realm

Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Parenting

4.74.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2026

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Kate Casey grew up in a chaotic home, and as a child she struggled to understand the strange — and sometimes unsettling —choices her parents made. When it came time to start her own family, Kate decided to trade the bad kind of chaos for the good kind. … Recommendations from the archive • Want more family drama? Listen to Dani Shapiro’s Family Secret. • Does Family Size Matter? An only child explains why she wanted a large family. … Episode resources • Kate’s podcast: Reality Life With Kate Casey … • Join LST+ for community and access to You Know What, another show in the Longest Shortest universe! • Follow us on Instagram • Sign up for our newsletter, where we recommend other parenting + reproductive health media • Buy books by LST guests (your purchase supports the show!) • Website: longestshortesttime.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey there, longest, shortest time listener. Be honest. Do you like listening to stories about

0:08.7

parenthood and reproductive health? Do you like when they're bold and complicated and funny and

0:14.3

poignant all at the same time? Of course you do. That's why you listen to the show, and it's part of what makes you special.

0:22.2

So I want to invite you to join our special club. It's called LST Plus, and when you join, you get all kinds of cool stuff.

0:30.7

You get to be part of our community where you can bond with other listeners.

0:34.3

You get to suggest story ideas for future episodes. You get access to a whole other show

0:39.8

with super awesome college kids talking about sex, dating, and relationships. And you get to hang out

0:45.9

with me and reproductive health experts and past guests and ask them questions. Membership is just

0:52.7

50 bucks a year or seven bucks a month. And if you want to

0:55.9

give more, you can. We've relaunched independently. So when you join the club, you're helping this

1:01.8

show to simply exist. Sign up is easy. Just go to longest shortest time.com slash club. See you there.

1:21.2

Kate Casey is a question asker. She loves learning the details of other people's lives.

1:28.0

I was this weird kid that used to take out my mom's yearbooks and ask her about everybody in the yearbook.

1:33.1

Like, okay, so 10th grade year, who is Chris?

1:35.4

And what street did she live on?

1:36.4

What were her parents' names?

1:37.3

Did she have siblings?

1:38.5

What did her parents do?

1:39.6

Why?

1:48.0

Why were you so interested in the yearbook in, like, the people from her from her past well i felt like a lot of the stories about the people that she knew and the way she interacted with them was almost like

1:53.0

giving me more puzzle pieces to my mom's own identity kate never really figured out her mom

1:58.7

her dad was even more of an enigma. Now she hosts the

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