#brunchtalk: Is This Weird To Do In Dating?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 30 November 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever questioned if something you were doing or saying would be perceived as odd when dating? We're breaking down two instances that have come up recently – and if the reactions warranted the efforts. We're discussing how things can be perceived especially when talking on dating apps, what to do to navigate a situation that feels a little off despite good intentions, and why some actions aren't always perceived the way you'd think they would be when dating.

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1:28.4	Hi, I'm U.E.S.U. And I'm Julie Craftchick. We're active daters turned dating insiders.
1:34.0	Here to dive into everything, modern dating, and relationships.
1:37.7	Welcome to Datable.
1:48.2	Hello, everybody. Welcome back.
1:50.3	Julie's not kept hostage anywhere.
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