#brunchtalk: How To Interpret Mixed Signals (Without Losing Your Mind)

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 21 September 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Are mixed signals a sign of disinterest or just poor communication? We're diving into the confusing world of hot and cold behavior in dating – and what it really means. Join us as we explore why mixed signals might not mean what you think, how to address them directly, and why clarity is key in any relationship. Plus, we're sharing personal stories and insights on how to navigate these tricky situations and avoid unnecessary dating games.

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1:24.1	peanut butter, and raspberry uncrustables. Hi, I'm U.S.U. And I'm Julie Kraftchick. We're active
1:30.8	daters turned dating insiders. Here to dive into everything, modern dating, and relationships.
1:36.3	Welcome to Datable. Welcome back. We are live. We are back. We're here to answer some fun dating questions.
1:50.4	And we wanted to talk about a topic that is near and dear to our hearts, but something that we get a lot of questions around.
1:58.3	And it's around mixed signals. And I actually feel like there are no mixed
2:04.0	signals. Yeah, or are there? I feel like I've definitely given mixed signals before. That was like
2:10.8	my jam, because either unintentionally or if I actually really liked someone, I was like,
2:17.3	yeah, I'm going to give them
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