I want to go into my next point which is this which is me starting a family

talk about taking risk look the bachelor Brian that you saw in the previous slide

was a guy with no children, with no pets, with no responsibilities.

At the time I had a two-story apartment in East London and Shortich.

I had all of the toys. I had none of the furniture, and I was

scared to risk starting a family.

That was me.

I was one of those people and maybe that's you.

And if you're in fear of starting a family type in the chat and

tell me why because it terrified me I was going to be the lone bachelor my whole

life I always thought it was too much a commitment it was going to hold me back it was I couldn't even

imagine like I said having a dog scared me my dad used to laugh at me I told him one time having a

dog is too much commitment he laughed out loud and he hung up on the phone with me.

So, but again, what we fear the most oftentimes is the thing that we should do.

Let me say that one more time.

What you fear the most is many times a sign of what you actually need to do.

And that's something that Tim Ferris told me when he was on the show many years ago.

And it's something I always think about, what scares me the most could be the direction I need to go.

Or one of my guests named Ryan Holliday said the obstacle is the way.

The thing that you think is the hardest thing to do or the scariest thing to do is often the

thing you need to do.

And so I pulled the trigger a few years ago, thanks to my beautiful wife, Mariana,

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