BRETT BARTHOLOMEW | Leading Through Chess, Not Checkers

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Business, Health, Leadership, Relationships, Man, Society & Culture, Intellect, Style, Lifestyle, Money, Selfdevelopment, Wealth, Fitness, Selfhelp, Nutrition

4.8 • 9K Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

We all want to lead. But not all of us can do so. Not right now but that doesn’t mean we aren’t capable of becoming the leader we desire to be. My guest today is Brett Bartholomew, a word-class performance coach and he is going to share exactly how we can begin to lead in our families, businesses, and communities more effectively.

Today, we talk about six driving factors of individuals, the four main communication styles and how to use the effectively, how power, influence, and manipulation can be wielded for good, the use of “referent power,” and how leaders play chess, not checkers.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Commitment and compliance
Tailoring your communication and messaging
Building teams with different personality types
The baseline of communication is misunderstanding
Some people are just interested in making you the enemy
Impression management is a form of communication
Messages have to be repeated
Selective and strategic self-disclosure

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0:00.0	Guys, we all want to lead, but not all of us can do so.
0:03.8	Not right now at least, but that doesn't mean we aren't capable of becoming the leader
0:08.4	we have a desire to be.
0:10.0	My guest today is Brett Bartholomew, a world-class performance coach, and he is going to share
0:14.6	exactly how we can begin to lead in our families, businesses, and communities more effectively.
0:20.9	Today, we talk about six driving factors of individuals, the four main communication
0:25.2	styles and how to use them effectively, how power, influence, and even manipulation
0:30.0	can be wielded for good, the use of referent power, and ultimately how leaders play chess,
0:36.0	not checkers.
0:37.0	You're a man of action.
0:38.0	You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly charge your own path.
0:42.7	When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.
0:46.6	You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong.
0:52.2	This is your life.
0:53.4	This is who you are.
0:54.8	This is who you will become.
0:55.8	At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.
1:01.5	Gentlemen, what is going on today?
1:02.9	My name is Ryan McClure.
1:04.2	I'm the host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and movement.
1:07.5	Welcome here and welcome back.
1:09.2	We've had a great start to 2023 with some incredible podcast guests and everything that we're
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