Well Brett says that I'm cheating on him. We're going to talk about that today. We're

going to talk about the sex expert that I had on the show. We're going to talk about what happened Christmas Eve and the day

before. Some of it is like such, I mean get a tissue and also I'm going to give you a bunch of updates and as per

usual I'll probably go off topic forget what I was talking about and we're just going

to keep each other company and we're doing going to keep each other company.

And we're doing that in the car.

So please put your seatbelt on.

We are going for a ride.

Welcome to the Shalin show.

Super excited to be here. I'm just really going for it with these, you know, life for updates until I hear otherwise, you know, it's your show. you guys get to dictate what the content is and

I'm just here to deliver it I feel a little guilty doing these episodes because these episodes are so

Freaking fun and easy and rewarding and enjoyable for me and so if this is what you like

I'm totally freaking here for it. I do love however that I've

been getting some great feedback especially like on you know just doing like one

deep dive a week. So last week we had Susan Breton, who's the sex expert, and I was so surprised how great the feedback was.

I just was a little, I don't know, hesitant maybe. I also got so much feedback from people there's so many things that we like didn't dig into

That I realize is a major issue I didn't realize it until I started getting your feedback like so many of you were talking about and I don't know anything about this so I'm going to just speak off the cuff right now. So many of you have a partner who's had prostate cancer or issues with their prostate.

So many of you have husbands who are dealing with ED and will not talk about it. And it's a pretty major deal. Heard from a lot of

you who were like, not that you were like unhappy with the expert, you didn't like the way that she kind of

framed you know men always want it and men are always ready and women have to be

warmed up and women you know like, like a lot of, you know, major stereotypes, but like what else can you do?

You know, we obviously as adults we know that there's all these different nuances and not everyone's the same and there's

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