You know, some couples are fighting about sex. Other couples are just quietly resolving themselves to not

having it. And some couples are very much still into each other. But that is pretty rare. I mean,

I think Brett and I are statistically outliers, that's for sure. And in this

episode, the two of us sit down to have a rather comical, but also very honest discussion about

marriage and sex and sexless marriages. And we talk about what that actually means, why it is way more common

than what people probably realize. So if that's something you're dealing with, please know that

this is going to be a really important episode for you. We're going to talk about how easy it is

to end up there, how common it is to end up there,

how frankly how natural it is to end up there.

Like so many things affect drive and desire and libido and there should be no shame in it.

And there are solutions sometimes within the marriage, sometimes outside of the marriage.

And we talk about all of it.

We talk about hormones and ED and pelvic floor pain and changes in your appearance

and resentment and anger and, you know, like what happens if you just don't feel like you are

attractive? Or what if you just don't feel like yourself? Or what if you feel like what happens if you just don't feel like you are attractive or what if you don't feel

like yourself or what if you feel like your partner is completely let go of themselves right like

we're going to talk about all of those things some personal friends that we have who are in

long-term relationships and are trying to navigate this. Why desires change

at 40 at 50? Why there's a rise in, quote, open relationships or the lifestyle, if you will.

And this conversation, I think, is an important one. Also, we talk about how do you bring this

subject up with your partner?

And Brett and I actually even did a little role playing.

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