What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy.

Hello, Daddy gang. Welcome back to another episode of Call Her Daddy. I just wanted to start out by saying

thank you to everyone who watched and listened to my last solo episode about choosing the right partner. I am so happy that so many of you resonated with that one. A lot of you also reached out to me saying that the episode made you realize that you are in fact not with the right person. I got a lot of

DMs that started to sound very similar. Like, you know, Alex, I don't think I'm with the right guy,

but I'm also scared to lose this person. I'm scared to be alone. I don't want to go through with the

breakup and have to start over and so on. And so first thing I want to do is like validate you today because I know that breakups firsthand are so hard and a really big deal. And it can sometimes I get, be easy for me to just sit here and joke around and be like, oh my God, bitch, dump him.

Like, we don't need him. Like, he's not shit. Like, he doesn't match your standards and he doesn't respect you and all this. But in reality, I do know that relationships are such a huge,

huge part of our lives. And ending a long-term relationship is a very big decision and it is extremely emotional and draining.

So the reason I wanted to talk more about this today is because I actually think we need to

reframe how we look at breakups. Yes, they absolutely suck. I'm not going to

sugarcoat that. Breakups can take you to some really dark and hard places, but I really do think

they are also necessary in getting you closer to what's actually meant for you, right? You can learn so

much from yourself from a breakup. They can end up being extremely important, transformative periods

of your life. When a relationship ends, that just means that there is a lesson you still need to

learn before you're able to choose

and find that right partner. And if done right, a breakup can completely redirect your life

into something so much better. But I also get that there is so much fear, right,

that comes along with realizing you need to end a relationship. It can seem

like you're completely losing the version of your future that you thought you were heading towards.

The marriage, the house, vacations, kids, whatever you were looking forward to with this person,

you now need to accept that you aren't heading down

the path that you pictured and fantasized about and dreamt about. And sometimes that can make

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