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Mama Knows

Breaking the Cycle of Intergenerational Trauma w/ Selma Baćevac

Mama Knows

Cloud10

Parenting, Kids & Family

5.01K Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2022

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Research shows that not only can Intergenerational Trauma be passed on by the way we parent, but also through DNA. Join me this week with Selma Baćevac as we talk about what Intergenerational Trauma can look like and how to break the cycle.Selma is a mother of two toddlers and a psychotherapist entrepreneur. She works with women and parents who want to overcome and heal trauma by offering one-one consulting, online masterclasses, and community. Selma's message is simple: "No child should ever experience the two types of fear: the fear of war and the fear of their parents." Selma was born in Bosnia and Herzegovina, lived through the Siege of Sarajevo during the war and genocide in Bosnia and was a resettled refugee to the United States at 12 years old.  Selma has been working as a psychotherapist for over 12 years. She has helped thousands of people heal their past traumas to move forward with their lives. More recently, Selma wrote and published a book, "Adem and the Magic Fenjer," where she helps parents with little children speak about refugees and how to hold compassionate and brave conversations.  Pre-Order Selma's Book: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/adem-and-the-magic-fenjer-selma-bacevac/1141343130Website: https://msha.ke/balkanmamatherapy/Contact:  info@selmabacevac.comInstagram: @balkanmamatherapy ________________________________________________________________Did you love this episode? BUY ME A COFFEE for support!Find me on Instagram@balkanina@mamaknowspodcastFind me on TikTokBalkaninaSubscribe to my NewsletterPrivate Facebook Motherhood-Podcast CommunityMama Knows FBDisclaimer: This podcast does not provide any medical advice, it is for informational purposes only! ______________________________Did you love this episode? BUY ME A COFFEE for support!Find me on Instagram@balkanina@mamaknowspodcastFind me on TikTokBalkaninaSubscribe to my NewsletterPrivate Facebook Motherhood-Podcast CommunityMama Knows FBDisclaimer: This podcast does not provide any medical advice, it is for informational purposes only! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey guys you're listening to m Knows Podcast with your host

0:13.4

Nina Kavagiola aka Balconina.

0:19.6

Join in weekly as she walks alongside you to navigate topics around motherhood, mental health, self-love, and relationships.

0:27.0

The good, bad, and I am parenting after trauma, aka intergenerational trauma,

0:41.0

childhood trauma, other traumas. And you know, we talked about trauma before in the

0:45.4

podcast, episode number three, and there are big teas and little teas. A lot of us, most of us probably have little traumas and we suppress those memories.

0:57.0

Anyways, I'm an immigrant, a refugee of war, came to the U.S. in 1998.

1:02.4

I talk about this in episode one but today I'm talking to my friend Selma who's a psychotherapist. Her handle on Instagram is Balca and Mama therapy and she is incredible. We are diving in deep into intergenerational trauma and I love

1:18.0

her for this I love how brave she is to talk about these things and I think you guys are going to love this

1:24.9

episode.

1:28.9

I'm so excited to have you here today, Selma. I have been dying to talk to you since I met you.

1:36.6

We have like literally identical life stories.

1:40.4

And you're only what, like one or two years older than me,

1:43.0

you're a mom of two, you're a psychotherapist,

1:45.0

and today you're joining me to talk about intergenerational trauma

1:48.5

and how it affects us in motherhood.

1:50.3

And I feel like you are the perfect person to talk about this because you have

1:53.6

intergenerational trauma that's been passed on because you come from a country of

1:57.8

war and so do I so this is going to be really fitting for both of us and I want to jump right in. Tell us about yourself and the work that you do.

2:07.0

Oh, Nana, first I want to say thank you for having me on here. I absolutely love your podcast and this whole idea about supporting mothers in motherhood

2:16.5

through your voice is amazing. By the way my favorite influencer I told my husband the other day I have just bought something because an

2:26.5

influencer and Instagram told me too. It was the first time I've ever done this.

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