Boyslut with Zachary Zane
Directionally Challenged
Kayla Ewell
4.9 • 4.3K Ratings
🗓️ 22 May 2023
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
Kaya is joined by sex activist, columnist, and author Zachary Zane to discuss his personal journey in healing from sexual shame and living with OCD as a bisexual man. If you’re ready to get out of your comfort zone and also have some laughs along the way, listen in to expand not just your mind but vocabulary to unpack social stigmas surrounding sexual desire.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, it's Kayla. I am so happy you're able to join us today because we are all still |
| 0:14.1 | so directionally challenged. We thought we'd have it all figured out by the time we were |
| 0:18.6 | in our 30s. But surprise, we don't. And that's okay. It really is okay. Boislat, did the name |
| 0:25.8 | of this episode catch your eye? Did you have to do a double take? Because I did the first time |
| 0:30.4 | today's guests reached out. Zach Rezane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert and activist |
| 0:36.8 | whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ plus community. He is the author of Boislat, |
| 0:43.9 | a memoir, and manifesto. Boislat will help you understand the structural systems in place that |
| 0:48.9 | cause us pain, sadness, anxiety, and anger. It will speak to why so many relationships fail. |
| 0:54.9 | And why a great number of people on this planet are unsatisfied with their sex lives. We talk |
| 1:00.1 | about this and so much more. I'm really excited to share with you my interview with today's guest, |
| 1:05.8 | Zach Rezane. Guys, I'm here with Zach Rezane. I'm obsessed with him. I'm so happy you're here. |
| 1:13.2 | I was, we were just talking off Mike before this and I was saying, we, you know, we haven't had an |
| 1:17.0 | episode like this on this podcast. And I get a little nervous to talk about sex. And this is the |
| 1:23.6 | whole point of your book. And this is why we're having this conversation. And I don't, I'm not |
| 1:28.2 | just saying this. There's no one else I want to have this conversation with because you, I already |
| 1:32.9 | feel at home with you just even through the computer screen. And after reading your memoir, I really |
| 1:38.0 | can't wait. There's so much to dive into. I know you wanted to write this for some time now. And |
| 1:44.0 | we've needed a book like this for some time. I've needed a book like this for some time. You know, |
| 1:50.3 | you say how you're not aware of a memoir that's written by a bisexual man on how to overcome |
| 1:56.1 | sexual shame. And you're right. It's about damn time. So here we are, you know, before we get |
| 2:02.5 | into everything, I want to take you back to little Zach, little Zach who is, you know, |
| 2:10.0 | struggling with his OCD and maybe has a little bit of shame, horny all the time. I mean, |
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